My buddy John’s birthday was yesterday. We had originally discussed doing something for it and then he sent me a text saying “nah too much work ill skip on big bday”. You’ll see that I said “bullshit, I’ll plan it for you”.
I also invited my buddy James and his wife + a buddy (life beast) who brought a girl. That put my head count at 3 guys 7 girls that I brought to the party. I also had my girl get all the mixers, appetizers, etc ($250).
We set up all the stuff and people came rolling in. My buddy Robbie pulled one of the top 5 most criminal moves in my book. He invited James who is an awesome guy and I like him, but he is a complete zero value add in this situation.
Its John’s birthday and John has 10+ guys coming. 99% of guys suck so you should know damn well that they aren’t gonna bring any girls. Adding James to this only increases the number of good looking/competent guys. Why in the world would you want to build a shark tank of dudes?
James NEVER brings girls, EVER EVER EVER.He’ll blah blah blah rape your fucking ear with complete non-sense about how ZOMG his squad of chicks is, and how he just left one girl and is en route to another girl, but the fact remains 4+ years 10-20 times I’ve never seen him once show up with girl/s anywhere. In no universe would I invite him out in this situation.
Robbie also invited another good looking friend of his, whom I said would not bring any girls, and sure as shit brought no girls and proceeded to ear and time rape my buddies girl with boring conversation. Cool story BRO, you gonna spend your night talking to the taken girl?
Transitioning…
Business check list:
- I invited 2 business/potential business people in my life, both brought girls, they got a chance to speak with each other and rage with the group. This is a plus for me because people are attracted to and want to work with people that have strong social lives, know interesting people, and are surrounded by attractive women.
- Not trying to fuck every woman I meet.
- I got 4 hot girls there because I have friend zoned them. I could probably sleep with them, well 3 of them anyway because I have shown ZERO interest which makes me more desirable. But it’s way more advantageous to maintain the friendly relationship and bring them to events with me. You’ll always be welcome to any event with 3 beautiful girls in tow.
Building Loyalty:
You don’t think John appreciates that I took it upon myself to help him have a good birthday? Somehow someway it will get paid back one day. This is how you build a network, a social circle. You add value to someone else’s life. I did that- I brought girls, smart biz people, handled pre-party set up.
Fun:
I got HAMMERED. Some girl grabbed my cock and started dancing up on me. My girl got annoyed and I give such little shit that I made a (funny) scene out of it to a point where she would feel dumb for being mad. 999/1000 guys nights would have been ruined after that event, mine got better. I DONT GIVE A FUCK. If someone is going to think he/she has some say/rule over my life he/she can walk. We’ll all be dead very soon, there is too little time to worry about this stuff.
John’s Squad:
10 dudes and 4 girls showed up, UGH SMH. All nice guys though.
Conclusion:
Preparty was a success…
Drunken rage success…
Amazing that the LA guys couldn’t muster up some girls to participate in this…
