Summary:
When inviting people back to your place, sell the experience, not the item (i.e. I have a sick pad). Find out what they want before you invite them. Feel out the group and see if they’re down to continue to party. Be indifferent to their response and say you’re going to party either way. Don’t beg. If you have cool people with you it gives you social proof and you’re infinitely more likely to succeed. You need to know after party logistics before going out.