Intro:
You need to have the growth mindset when you’re going through the process of approaching and learning all these other skills with women. Enjoy the process. Being able to approach girls anytime you want and knowing you can pick up girls in any city is the ultimate. It’s total freedom. If you’re comfortable, you’re dying, you’re dead. If you’re uncomfortable you’re alive, you’re living your truth.
Show notes:
- What Robbie did when he started taking action to learn attraction skills
- How Robbie conquered his approach anxiety
- The difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset, and why it will change your life
- Why daygame is freedom
- Attraction + comfort + time = strong connections
- Why you’re thinking about your female friends wrong
- We delve into a recent reader question about how to turn your friendships into something romantic, and the deeper life mindsets behind it
- Why the urge to jump into comfortable relationships can be a sign of unhealthy beliefs about tolerating emotional discomfort
- Why being comfortable is a bad sign
- Building your track record and becoming more of a value add
