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On this episode of Inner Confidence Podcast, the host, Robbie Kramer talks about dating and various red flags to watch out for. In this episode, he covers a wide range of topics, from farting in front of one’s partner to dating vegans and dealing with red flags. Additionally, Robbie explains how having options makes a difference when it comes to choosing quality partners. He also stresses the importance of taking red flags seriously and running for the hills if needed. The podcast also discusses how focusing too much on one’s life goals can be too masculine and how mutual interests can be a dating attraction. Tune in to this episode of Inner Confidence Podcast to get a better understanding of red flags and why options matter in choosing the right partner.
Show Notes:
03:19 – “You will feel anxiety, depression, hopelessness etc.” – Host breaks down how picking the wrong girl can ruin your life!
04:51 – Red flag #1: If she drinks beer?! – Find out why this is a big red flag!
05:33 – If she talks about her exes! – Learn why you should look out for this one!
06:11 – “If she makes hard right turns in life” – Discover why chicks who make drastic fast changes are no good for you!
07:39 – “She insists on knowing where you are headed after a few dates” – Why to avoid this!
08:41 – “She has a tonne of guy friends but no girlfriends” – We discuss why this is a red flag!
09:50 – Daddy issues! – WHY to avoid these girls!
10:34 – “If she f*cks you on the first date” – Is this really a red flag? Find out!
12:49 – If she does not follow you on social media, it means…. – Find out! And why this is a huge red flag!
13:50 – “If she has ever been a stripper, there is 99% chance she has been a prostitute too!” – Here is why!
15:41 – “chicks that get emotional about meaningless sports!” – RED FLAG! We discuss…
16:58 – Girls who can’t stop talking about their glory days!? – Learn why to avoid this one!
18:31 – Girls with more than one cat: RED FLAG – Why to avoid the cat women!
19:47 – Girls who post selfies of just their bikini bottom and legs?! – We explain why to avoid this type!
21:41 – Don’t ask them their age!! – find out when it’s appropriate to ask a woman her age!
23:45 – Burping & Farting! – Find out why women should not fart in the presence of a man! We discuss the differences…
27:08 – VEGANS! “If she doesn’t like sushi, she won’t give you head!” – Find out if being vegan is a red flag!
30:49 – Chicks who don’t date their own race!? – Find out why is a red flag!
32:01 – “Girls who always talk about their next trip to Africa to help starving kids” – We discuss why this is a bad thing!
35:24 – Girls who are obsessed about their corporate jobs! – Is this a big red flag?? Listen and learn!
36:39 – Girls who only eat out – AVOID! Discover why!
37:14 – Girls who love horror movies? BIG NO! – We dive into the details!
41:07 – If she has a tramp stamp, RUN! – Learn why!
45:09 – “If her father is uber wealthy” – You won’t satisfy her needs, here is why!
46:31 – “Women who have a Pitbull” – “you’re asking for a lawsuit!”
54:18 – “I’ve never met a normal girl that dated younger guys” – Why to avoid these types of women!
01:00:43 – Conclusion – We reflect on the red flags!
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Robbie Kramer [00:00:00]:
Red flag girls who talk about big dicks girls who love cocaine girls who fart in front of you come under the covers and then You fart. Hey Then you laugh in her face If she drinks beer daddy issues if she has ever been a stripper chicks who swear a lot girls who work at tanning salons She drives like a man and drives with 1 arm Virgins who will take it in the ass and still claim to be a virgin.
Robbie Kramer [00:00:28]:
Welcome to the Inner Confidence podcast, where we bring you men’s dating and lifestyle advice that doesn’t suck. I’m your host, Robbie Kramer, a former collegiate golfer, turned poker pro, turned finance guy, who became obsessed with learning about male-female attraction and dynamics, and passionate about teaching men how to improve and optimize their love life. Tune in each week and we’ll bring you the latest and greatest strategies on how to get more dates, how to build a thriving social circle that brings the best men and women into your life, how to become a better networker, and how to design a lifestyle that makes all your buddies jealous. If you’re new to the show, I recommend you download my first date protocol. It’s the best piece of content I have. It’ll help you optimize your first date and subsequent dates. And I like to connect with my listeners personally. So if you want to grab a copy of that, please send me a direct message on Instagram. I’m at Robbie underscore Kramer. Now let’s dive into this week’s content.
Robbie Kramer [00:01:19]:
Yo, welcome back. We’ve got another episode, the podcast with my lovely co-host, my wife.
Mariia Kramer [00:01:30]:
Hi.
Robbie Kramer [00:01:32]:
So today we have a kind of fun episode because I’m going to surprise Maria here with a red flags list of who you should never marry. And this red flags list was compiled back in like 2014, 2015 in the inter confidence community from all of the moderators. These are guys that are really good with women, tons of experience, some married, some single, but we basically crowdsourced all the different red flags that you could find in a potential partner and put them into a very, very long list. So what we’re going to do now, and I admit, I took a glance at the list, obviously, before recording this, but I didn’t look at it very thoroughly and I want to see how many of those red flags that you, my dear, have. And If you guys are dating women with these red flags,
Mariia Kramer [00:02:33]:
it’s a little dicey. Or if you’re… If they get divorced, so they’re this happy, so they’re what?
Robbie Kramer [00:02:40]:
If you’re considering… Seems like… If you’re considering dating women with these red flags, You should talk about that. So she has not seen these red flags, correct? Correct. Swear to God? Swear to God. She’s never seen these. So without further ado, let’s dive into the red flags list. Don’t date these women and let’s see how many red flags my wife has. Already too late since we’re married. So, number 1. Well, first, let’s talk about the red flags.
Mariia Kramer [00:03:13]:
Will you share your screen? No. Or you just want to read them? Oh, I’ll kind of paraphrase them. So
Robbie Kramer [00:03:20]:
keep in mind, you, my friend, are a prime candidate to choose the wrong girl and feel anxiety, powerlessness, anger, regret, and all of that other bullshit daily if you pick the wrong girl. So how do you protect against this? How do you fend it off? Well, you have options, optionality, right? And having options makes it 100 times less likely that you’re going to settle with a broken girl. In my experience, those guys without options, they marry disgusting, low life women, and those with options marry cool chicks. We’re human, and we’re designed for companionship, right? If you’re 31 years old, and you’ve been jerking off alone for years, you’re gonna feel lonely and you’re gonna settle with whatever loser girl gives you love, regardless of how many red flags appear. And trust me, you’re gonna make excuses for every 1 of them. So Run for the hills if your girl exhibits these red flags. Disclaimer, you can have sex with whomever you like. Just don’t date or seriously pursue or get frustrated when 1 of the girls listed isn’t the cool, sort of perfect chick.
Mariia Kramer [00:04:32]:
Ready? Are there red flags for guys or only for girls? Of course there’s red flags for guys. Why are we only looking for girls? Because I’m not an expert on the red flags for guys. I’ll do the list, guys. Next episode. All right, here we go. Let’s
Robbie Kramer [00:04:48]:
see how much he has. And so we’re gonna, I’m gonna ask you about each of these as we go along. All right, so number 1. If she loves or drinks beer excessively.
Mariia Kramer [00:04:58]:
Disgusting. I don’t drink alcohol. But beer and vodka are the most disgusting drinks you can possibly find in this world That’s right. Like if guys drink beer, it’s disgusting, but What can you do with when the girl?
Robbie Kramer [00:05:14]:
Drinks for a girl to like and I’m not talking like craft beer or like, but excessively drinks like Bud Light or Miller Lite or she just loves beer. No. Really big red flag. Usually those girls are going to have a lot of the other red flags on the list. So funny. Yeah, it’s bad. Number 2, if she talks about exes like a guy would talk about sports.
Mariia Kramer [00:05:40]:
That girl has issues. I know it’s so annoying. I hate it. I mean, when you’re like, especially when you go to the first date and the girl or the guy will start to think, you know, and my ex girlfriend, she was like, what the fuck, why would you even like mention it? You’re on a date with a new girl or a new guy. Why are you bringing
Robbie Kramer [00:05:58]:
the baggage to the date? Yeah, no, it’s definitely a red flag. All right. You think that’d be a red flag for guys too? Oh yeah, for anyone. Like, don’t bring your old relationship. It’s like no 1 needs them, no 1 interested. For sure. All right, number 3, if she makes hard right turns in life, like huge city change or career or spiritual changes. People who make these hard right turns are usually running from things, right? Like 1 day she’s, you know, very much happy to be a church going Christian and the next day she’s like I’m converting to Islam.
Mariia Kramer [00:06:34]:
That’d be a hard right turn. Like abruptly, right? I feel crazy. I mean I think if it happens like a few times and you just change the city because nothing worked and you lost the city. Oh, there’s nothing wrong with changing a city. Yeah. That’s probably not the best example. But like changing from… Just changing from something like radical it’s bad. If you’re like really Christian and you like believe in God and like next day you’re Muslim or something. That’s it’s weird. Or you’re just normal and the next day you’re super spiritual and you had like an enlightenment and now it’s like oh It’s like a personality
Robbie Kramer [00:07:09]:
disorder thing. It’s usually people that do those sorts of things Well, guess what? They’re gonna change their mind about you All right, number 4 you can’t swear or cuss around her. Ah, no, bullshit. You can swear up a motherfucker around
Mariia Kramer [00:07:31]:
you, right baby? Oh, but we need to peep this.
Robbie Kramer [00:07:34]:
Beep it? That’s okay, This is a, you know, swearing friendly podcast. Number 5, she insists on knowing what you to are slash where this is headed after very few dates, no sex and no meaningful reasons to have this conversation. Right. So it’s like you’ve been on 2 dates, you haven’t had sex,
Mariia Kramer [00:07:54]:
you know, nothing. It’s like barely anything’s happened. And she’s like, what are we going to do? I know what’s why it’s happening because they’re not experienced. You’ve had so much experience in their lives. That’s why they always dream about this and the girls who are more realistic and experienced, they know that it’s not going to happen unless you build relationship and you like each other and everything is working out in the future.
Robbie Kramer [00:08:18]:
Or it’s the opposite, where they’re obsessing over finding the perfect partner, and they’re trying to weed out guys as fast as possible. So on the second date, they’re already like, so where is this going? What’s your plan here? These are girls who typically the biological clock is hyperactive. Oh yeah, or like the girls that’s like 35 plus. Yeah. All right, number 6. She has a ton of guy friends, but no girlfriends.
Mariia Kramer [00:08:47]:
Yeah, that’s weird.
Robbie Kramer [00:08:50]:
What does that mean about a girl? She has a ton of guy friends but no girlfriends. Do you have any friends like that? Well, obviously not. I mean, if you can’t make friends with your own sex, That’s weird. It’s a huge red flag, right?
Mariia Kramer [00:09:06]:
Yeah, it’s weird.
Robbie Kramer [00:09:07]:
She has number 7, she has no long-term friends, all of her friends are new friends, right? I mean, that’s a pretty obvious 1. If she doesn’t have long-term friends but you can’t maintain a relationship terms friends how long because long term it’s like multiple years
Mariia Kramer [00:09:24]:
but multiple years how many like 5 good
Robbie Kramer [00:09:29]:
2 3
Mariia Kramer [00:09:31]:
okay that then it’s good I thought it’s like from childhood or something because I don’t have many friends from childhood. Yeah, no, but you’ve got like Lisa and Sarah. No, I have friends that I know for like 5 to 7 years. Yeah. Not more than that. Okay.
Robbie Kramer [00:09:46]:
Let’s see, number 8. But so far you’re a 100% no red flags. Number 8, she has a weird relationship with her dad. Maybe she hates him or he’s cold or judges her harshly. Basically, if her dad and her aren’t super cool, you’re going to pay for this. Daddy issues, very simple, right? If a girl has a bad relationship with her dad, she’s gonna have a lot of trouble with love in her life. But it’s the same for a guy, if he has troubles with his mom. Mommy issues, of course. And he’ll have, he’ll Always look for not a good girl, unfortunately. If your first relationship with your opposite sex parent, well, yeah, but that is your first relationship of love, right? And if that’s screwed up, it’s very difficult to date. You know, people have to go through a lot of therapy for that. A lot of therapy, yeah. Yeah. Number 9, if she fucked you on the first night. Good luck, sir What do you think about that 1?
Mariia Kramer [00:10:42]:
I mean it happens But it’s definitely happens not was the guy who you want to date and like create a family because with the guy who you really want to create a family you will keep him first
Robbie Kramer [00:10:55]:
like not so close because you want to look for him for his qualities and stuff. It’s an important point if a girl really likes you she’s probably gonna slow sex down Yeah, if she doesn’t really care about you. She’s likely to just bang you on the first night This was not 1 of the ones that I wrote particularly. I think it’s possible to have a great relationship First night it just depends on the people
Mariia Kramer [00:11:17]:
yeah I don’t think it’s bad and you had like a crazy attraction it happened with him what can you do I don’t think it’s I
Robbie Kramer [00:11:26]:
think if you were to run like a poll of people who have really powerful or a powerful very solid relationships I bet most of them didn’t sleep together on the first night, but it’s hard. It happens, yeah. It’s hard, it’s hard. Yeah, it’s fine. Number 10, If she’s Russian and has expensive taste.
Mariia Kramer [00:11:50]:
We don’t like Russians.
Robbie Kramer [00:11:52]:
We’re not going to say that. My cousin’s Russian. We don’t like the Putin regime, you could say. Putin regime Russians. Yes. But that’s a political issue we’re not going to get into. This is kind of a joke. But Russians, especially ones living in Miami, have a very bad reputation of being gold diggers and just, you know, into expensive bags and all those sorts of things. You know, they’re marrying you for the wrong reasons so be careful
Mariia Kramer [00:12:21]:
I agree with that flag
Robbie Kramer [00:12:23]:
um I’m gonna get some heat from my russian girlfriends listening to this all right number 11 why would you care about them I mean I care if they’re offended and they’re cool. I know some cool Russian girl. I know some cool Russians too. I don’t know any cool Russian Miami girl, so That was the guy who wrote that was talking specifically about that type of girl. So number 11, she doesn’t link you through some form of social media. Like if she doesn’t follow you on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, she has a boyfriend. Right? Like she’s dodging you. She doesn’t want you to see what’s going on. Yeah, 100%. Yeah. Same with guys, right? If you’re dating a guy and he’s not willing to like add you on social media. It’s like he has a girlfriend. Yeah. Number 12. If she isn’t ready to date or sorting her life out, she just finished a relationship, she still loves someone and is still dating them and or is still dating them. I agree. Right. If she, Oh, I’m not really ready to date. I’m just, you know, I’m going through a lot in my life. Blah, blah, blah. You hear that a lot with like online dating potential, you know, relationships. Um, so yeah.
Mariia Kramer [00:13:43]:
And I mean like if she’s not ready, why do we need her? Right. It’s like, obvious.
Robbie Kramer [00:13:50]:
Next 1. If she has ever been a stripper, because 99.99% of strippers have also been a hooker at some point or another right stripping is just a way to or your ex-girlfriend
Mariia Kramer [00:14:08]:
Was your
Robbie Kramer [00:14:10]:
Dated a few strippers and did the occasional Oldest profession on the side. I mean, it’s just a slippery slope, right? It’s like if you’re already giving dances what’s the big deal like oh you know the guy’s gonna pay me you know a thousand dollars
Mariia Kramer [00:14:26]:
you know there are some guys that want to like marry porn actresses and it’s weird but you know if they want like
Robbie Kramer [00:14:35]:
they can do whatever they want sure I’m not judging I’m just saying it’s a red flag If she wants you to call her on the phone before you’ve had sex Now this doesn’t apply to online dating because sometimes girls want to like hear your voice make sure you’re not a weirdo But still it’s a little dicey red flag. What does mean? I don’t understand call her before like like you’re You meet some guy online or in real life and like you haven’t had sex but you’re like, you know, you want to talk on the phone all the time. Talk on the phone? Yeah, like you want them to call you.
Mariia Kramer [00:15:20]:
It’s like a little too much. It is too much. It’s like sometimes when people do audio message for like 5 minutes, I don’t want to even listen to this. It’s like, you know, save my time. It’s an over investment basically. So yeah, and better to still see each other in real life and speak than like, I don’t know. I agree.
Robbie Kramer [00:15:39]:
Um, the next 1 is chicks that get hyper emotional about meaningless sports, like the Bengals playing the Falcons in week 3 and she has no affiliation to either so you get very emotional about Liverpool games but I mean you’re a crazy fan. Don’t say anything about Liverpool, you will have problems. But that’s, I mean, I don’t know if that would qualify. Yeah, but like, let’s… You don’t get hyper emotional about, if they lose a normal game, you’re not like crying, you’re just like, oh, that sucks, they lost. Right? If they lose like the Champions League final, then, you know… I can cry. You did cry when they lost that 1 but I don’t think that that doesn’t come so I support them for 7 years of my life keep in mind it says girls that get hyper emotional about meaningless sports games you get emotional about meaningful
Mariia Kramer [00:16:32]:
so you get the pass on that. Next 1, girls who… Better be like me than like you, support Lakers and never watch their games. Hey, I watch them in the playoffs. Lake Show, diehard Laker fan. You’re such a… How do you call those people who… A frontrunner. You’re a frontrunner. A glore. A glore.
Robbie Kramer [00:16:48]:
Yeah, a glore.
Mariia Kramer [00:16:49]:
Ease.
Robbie Kramer [00:16:51]:
Girls who love cocaine.
Mariia Kramer [00:16:53]:
Oh yeah, that’s bad.
Robbie Kramer [00:16:55]:
That’s a dangerous 1. Next 1. Girls who can’t stop talking about their glory days and their college sorority probably all of those. What is the glory days? It’s like back when they were in a sorority. Sorority? Yeah, sorority, you know, a fraternity and a sorority like when you’re in university. When you’re in university and you live in a house with a bunch of guys
Mariia Kramer [00:17:23]:
or girls. We don’t have this in Ukraine.
Robbie Kramer [00:17:26]:
Well, basically anyone who’s like, yeah back in the day when I was so cool, you know, like if they’re more excited about like what happened in the past. Yeah, not what’s happening right now. Yeah. Agree. Girls who are into quantum physics. This is a ridiculous 1. Probably too smart for you. So I’ll be a red flag.
Mariia Kramer [00:17:47]:
Why is it red flag? I think that’s just a silly 1. It’s the same with girls. That’s like Chem how do you say chemistry
Robbie Kramer [00:17:54]:
now quantum physics is like very very advanced like the most advanced She works in the how do you call NASA
Mariia Kramer [00:18:00]:
NASA? Yeah, if she works in NASA, come on you should be proud of your girl of course like I think it’s a cool if you’re listening to this and you’re dating or you’ve ever dated a girl who was a quantum physicist
Robbie Kramer [00:18:12]:
and you know I want to know I was actually
Mariia Kramer [00:18:18]:
seen a documentary about the space on Netflix and there are an amazing team and the girls too. I really like them. I don’t think it’s…
Robbie Kramer [00:18:28]:
I don’t know how they are to date, But that somehow made the list. I didn’t write that 1. Next 1. Girls with more than 1 cat.
Mariia Kramer [00:18:38]:
I don’t think it’s a problem. Multiple cats? If you have 2 cats, we have 2 dogs.
Robbie Kramer [00:18:43]:
Yeah, but we’re 2 people. You have 1 dog, right?
Mariia Kramer [00:18:47]:
What? A girl with 2 cats. Maybe I have large 70 pounds dogs. If I will have 2 really small cats, the girl with 5 cats can be a little bit. So where do we draw the line 3 cats? I think 3 cats is still okay. 3 cats is okay. No, no, because a lot of people
Robbie Kramer [00:19:07]:
foster cats. Foster, but that’s different. You can foster cats.
Mariia Kramer [00:19:12]:
You can have your cat, you can foster 2 of them. I feel like once you have more than 3, maybe 3 cats is the line. I mean, if you’re like a, have like a foster family for some animals or you like rescue animals and you look, have it for a month until you find a house for it. You know, I think it’s totally normal, but if you have like 3 or more cats, I mean, I love animals. I don’t care. Maybe it’s a red flag for you.
Robbie Kramer [00:19:39]:
I think the line is 3 cats. All right, if you have 3 cats, if your dating relationship is 3 cats, Well, that’s a little dicey. All right, next red flag. Girls who post selfies on Instagram of the beach pool of just their bikini bottom and legs, plus the pool and beach view. You know what I’m talking about? Where they take the photo like this, and it’s like, you know, just their legs and their bikini bottoms and like the thing I bet you do not have a single shot like that on your Instagram
Mariia Kramer [00:20:08]:
you don’t but it’s normal all my girlfriends do this why don’t you have it then I may have 1 in the story a long time ago. In a story that’s different? No, I would never post it in my profile feed, obviously. I don’t think it’s… I don’t like these selfies when the body is not looking good, and it looks like 2 sausages. And it’s like, it looks weird, and why would you ever post it that makes you look not good that’s why it’s a red flag it’s weird But like there is there are a lot of girls who like have beautiful body and they just you know on the beach reading a Book they did like little picture of them reading. I’m talking about the very specific Reading the book and you make picture like this. Oh, that’s the picture of the book. I don’t know. It’s a good
Robbie Kramer [00:21:02]:
Next 1 Girls who ask you if you want to buy them a drink. Obviously at a bar or a club. Would you ever go up to a guy and be like, hey, do you want to buy me a drink?
Mariia Kramer [00:21:13]:
I don’t drink, but I would never say this, but a lot of guys propose to drink. Obviously not what we’re talking about here. Yeah, I would never ask. I would buy myself.
Robbie Kramer [00:21:24]:
Any girl who’s doing that is like, obviously you’re not the first 1 that she’s done that to, and she’s
Mariia Kramer [00:21:30]:
clearly like
Robbie Kramer [00:21:32]:
manipulating
Mariia Kramer [00:21:33]:
and… No, it’s bad. No, no.
Robbie Kramer [00:21:36]:
No, isn’t you agree with me, right? You agree with me, right? Oh, no, it’s bad. Yeah. Next 1. Girls who get really offended when you ask them their age.
Mariia Kramer [00:21:48]:
Really offended is how much?
Robbie Kramer [00:21:51]:
Like offended, like pissed off like how dare you ask me my age?
Mariia Kramer [00:21:55]:
A lot of girls are getting a little bit offended because You know everyone wants to stay beautiful young and you know, well, you have to follow social protocol. I yeah, it’s not like hey Ha ha. Ask a random woman. Hey, how old are you? Yeah, that’s rude and but if you have just a normal conversation and you know each other for a few days, then like, it’s weird. And
Robbie Kramer [00:22:20]:
yeah, if she’s really getting pissed off. Like you’ve gone on a couple of dates, and you’re like, by the way, how old are you? And she’s like, how dare you ask me? No, that’s bad. That’s a huge red flag. But you need to follow the social protocol to ask the age. If you ask in an appropriate way, and she gives you a very aggressive, angry, non-answer.
Mariia Kramer [00:22:36]:
That’s a huge red flag.
Robbie Kramer [00:22:38]:
All right, the next 1. Girls who you meet out while on a bachelorette party. They’re just a waste of time. Any girl you meet on a bachelorette, we saw what happened at the Austin Immersion, right?
Mariia Kramer [00:22:50]:
They just left.
Robbie Kramer [00:22:53]:
I mean, they’re not there for
Mariia Kramer [00:22:56]:
meeting guys. They’re just there to like obviously support the bachelorette. Yeah, but they party. They want to like They want guys to like basically give them a bunch of like what happens in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas
Robbie Kramer [00:23:09]:
Yeah, so avoid bachelorette parties it’s like oh wow look at all those girls so much opportunity there It’s like no, it’s a bad waste of your time. Next 1. Chicks who swear a lot are usually a problem.
Mariia Kramer [00:23:24]:
I agree.
Robbie Kramer [00:23:25]:
Excessively swearing.
Mariia Kramer [00:23:28]:
I agree. And it’s bad. Like, I understand. It’s trashy. It’s trashy. And like, I, all people swear. I do you do but it should be like
Robbie Kramer [00:23:38]:
Like occasional thing. Yeah, besides a point or yeah
Mariia Kramer [00:23:43]:
Express yourself if you feel bad or yeah, right
Robbie Kramer [00:23:46]:
Next red flag girls who fart in front of you.
Mariia Kramer [00:23:51]:
I agree with that, but I think it’s not even because all girls, all guys fart and it’s funny, it’s cool, and like they don’t care. They might think you’re over it. And but
Robbie Kramer [00:24:08]:
I agree. It’s just really unfeminine. First it’s unfeminine
Mariia Kramer [00:24:12]:
and… Like guys get a pass for that. I could never do this because like I like I can’t imagine myself doing this.
Robbie Kramer [00:24:19]:
Yeah. Pro tip. So this used to bother me a lot. You know, if you start sleeping with a girl, eventually you’re going to want to fart in front of her because if you don’t and you let like too much time go by and you never fart then it becomes weird. So after usually I wouldn’t do it the first time unless it just slips out and then you just laugh about it but maybe the second time you know that you’ve slept together um you know afterwards you say hey baby I got a present for you And then you like say come under the covers and then you fart Then you laugh at her face. She’s gonna think it’s funny I did that to you. You didn’t do this to me. Did your fingers? The other thing is pull my finger Right, so you I mean otherwise you got to spend your entire relationship pretending to not fart. But why you should spend and it’s so bad, but that I’m spending my entire relationship with you like this till the end of my life. You don’t. I mean, sometimes you let 1 go, but it’s not like you’re intentionally like You don’t do that right you also the next next red flag girls who burp really lovely I
Mariia Kramer [00:25:26]:
Hate burping for me. It’s actually If the fart I would agree but was burping I hate when guys burp too for me It’s like it’s total red flag for guys. It’s like so disgusting. It makes me want to throw up. It’s so gross, especially when you’re eating in this moment, someone in the restaurant or somewhere else, and someone’s burping, I can’t finish my food. It’s bad.
Robbie Kramer [00:25:56]:
All right, next, red flag. Girls who hate their sisters.
Mariia Kramer [00:26:01]:
Yeah, I mean, you know, some sisters can suck. And they hate the sister because not she is the 1 who is the trouble, because her sister is the 1 who is the trouble. So It’s like you can’t judge the situation. Well, it’s your sister, so you should
Robbie Kramer [00:26:19]:
have… If your sister stole from you 50 grand, how do you think, will you love her? I would probably forgive her. She probably had a good reason.
Mariia Kramer [00:26:28]:
No, and she blamed that she didn’t, and she’s telling everyone that you stole them and put it on her. There’s obviously exceptions to the rule. No, because I know like literally few situations. But you like your sister? No, I like my sister, but like it’s not about me because there are some situations when your sister is a piece of shit. Of course. And a bad human being. But we’re not talking about outliers here. I’m saying in general, girls who hate their sisters, it’s a red flag, right? If you’re dating a girl and she’s like, I hate my sister, I can’t stand her. No, but if she hates her with no reason because she’s jealous and then it’s bad. But if the sister has done something bad to the family or personal to her, then she has rights to hate her. Alright, the next 1, this could be a controversial 1.
Robbie Kramer [00:27:10]:
Red flag, vegans, girls who don’t like sushi, and girls who refuse to try new food.
Mariia Kramer [00:27:18]:
I don’t agree with that. Because it’s your own right to eat food what you want. And no 1 can tell you it’s bad or not. It’s your choice. And if you refuse to try new food and you’re vegan and someone tells you to try his meat, it’s not bad. Or like new food what? Like there is some… Like you refuse to try anything new food. Like you try new food. Of course, I always try new food, but like
Robbie Kramer [00:27:46]:
it’s… How many vegan friends do you have? I know some. But are you really close with those people?
Mariia Kramer [00:27:53]:
Koff was vegan, Simona was vegan. Was,
Robbie Kramer [00:27:56]:
isn’t. Tried out vegan is different than vegan.
Mariia Kramer [00:28:00]:
I wouldn’t care what they eat. Why would they possibly? I have a vegan
Robbie Kramer [00:28:05]:
friend in Kiev actually. And we meet for dinners all the time. I just think it’s a red flag because you’re dealing like, look at, look at the Julie and her situation where, you know, they had a lot of issues around eating. Because he was pushing
Mariia Kramer [00:28:20]:
her to be fully kosher. Of course. And their kids too. The point is if you’re, if you are not a vegan and you start dating a vegan that’s uh, that’s tough. Now, Look, our friend Mickey, he’s vegan. When we go to his place, he buys meat for us. I think he’s vegetarian. He’s vegetarian. There’s a big difference between vegan and vegetarian. Vegetarians are not on the list. Vegans are on the list. Okay, but the thing is, this girl, she’s vegan. She’s vegan because she wants to be and she doesn’t care what you eat If you can go to the restaurant and she can eat her vegan salad and you can eat piece of steak and she doesn’t care Because it’s your own choice No, but it’s what I’m speaking about. You cannot put everyone, like, not all vegans are the same. It’s like, it’s your personal choice. You’re not understanding what a red flag is. A red flag is be careful,
Robbie Kramer [00:29:13]:
right? I don’t think it’s that. If they have these signs, it means be careful. I’m not saying run for the hills. It’s just a red flag. I don’t think it’s French. All right. You’re allowed to disagree. That’s fine. What about girls who don’t like sushi?
Mariia Kramer [00:29:27]:
That’s kind of a funny 1. My friend. Look, I once, why, I hate corn. You know, the usual corn that you eat all the time? You like, you love. That’s not on the list. No, but the thing like once I throw up from eating too much corn and I felt bad for 3 days I was throwing up, I hate corn. Okay. Like if someone had the same situation with sushi and it became red flag, I think it’s ridiculous. My friend has a theory that girls who don’t like sushi
Robbie Kramer [00:29:54]:
don’t give head.
Mariia Kramer [00:29:56]:
Bobby,
Robbie Kramer [00:29:57]:
let’s speak about astrology right now because it’s already going somewhere there. No, but listen, there’s a point. Girls who don’t like sushi, it’s usually about the texture, right? And if they don’t like sushi, they’re typically like, I don’t want to dig in the mouth. Oh, I don’t know. That’s his theory, not my theory. It’s ridiculous. All right. Number 30 something. Girls who don’t like to work out.
Mariia Kramer [00:30:21]:
Yeah, that’s bad.
Robbie Kramer [00:30:22]:
I mean, don’t like to work out? Good luck. You’re going to have a fat chick on your hands at some point or another.
Mariia Kramer [00:30:30]:
I know a lot of really skinny girls and they eat like McDonald’s every day. They don’t do anything and they’re skinny, but it’s like, it’s not a good… Just wait till they get older. It’s not just about weight. It’s just not healthy. Of course. Especially if you like to work out. You don’t share the same hobby. It’s not
Robbie Kramer [00:30:51]:
cool. Next 1. Red flag. Chicks who refuse to date their own race. In our experience, are always a bit off. Like who hates their own people? Right? Like if you meet, I don’t know, a Thai girl who says, I will never date a Thai guy. It’s like, kind of weird. I don’t think so. You don’t think that’s weird? I’m married in America. Yeah, but you dated Ukrainian guys. Yeah, I didn’t like them. Okay, but you still dated them.
Mariia Kramer [00:31:17]:
I did and I was like… You don’t hate Ukrainian men? No, I like Ukrainian men. I have Ukrainian friends. Right. A lot of cool…
Robbie Kramer [00:31:26]:
I love… I love Ukrainian people. You did not refuse to date your own race. You dated many of them. You just married an American. Yeah. Okay. You mean the people… Like they say, I will not date a Ukrainian. If you…
Mariia Kramer [00:31:41]:
No, that’s ridiculous. It’s just normal if you want to date other races. Totally normal, right? Yeah. No, I agree on that. No, I preferred to marry a Ukrainian
Robbie Kramer [00:31:53]:
woman. But I dated lots of Americans. Yeah, yeah. I guess I wouldn’t say I preferred. I did. It wasn’t a preference. It’s just what happened. Next red flag, girls who always talk about their next trip to Africa to help starving kids. This is an aggressive 1. This is so bad.
Mariia Kramer [00:32:14]:
I totally disagree.
Robbie Kramer [00:32:16]:
I mean, I think the point is like if they’re so focused on this mission, right? And they’re all about their life purpose. That can be a little bit too masculine. But if you’re also on, you know, you have a client who also goes to Africa. We’re talking about women not men. No, but maybe he will like girl like this because it’s there will be their mutual hobby. Yeah. He also goes to Africa, he has his own foundation. Yeah, but doesn’t always talk about it. It’s girls who only talk about it. Not only. It’s like all she talks about. It doesn’t happen. You’re not listening to the- Maybe it never happens that the girl, you always talk about golf. Let’s put you in red flags. Like we’re in the back, you talk about golf. You’re not understanding. It’s like, it’s like, that’s all she can talk about. It’s what you do about golf. No, I don’t. I talk about everything. Yeah, but it’s- We’re talking about red flags right now. We’re not talking about golf, right?
Mariia Kramer [00:33:05]:
It’s girls who are constantly talking about- You can see on the podcast also talking about Africa.
Robbie Kramer [00:33:10]:
Anyways.
Mariia Kramer [00:33:12]:
Next 1. I think people who want to help other people are great. I don’t-
Robbie Kramer [00:33:19]:
That’s totally not what this is saying.
Mariia Kramer [00:33:21]:
It’s somebody who’s obsessed
Robbie Kramer [00:33:23]:
with their mission. It’s a very specific thing and they only talk about it. It’s kind of a stupid 1. I agree. Next 1. Red flag. Anyone who has dated down in looks and social skills by a huge order of magnitude. I do not. So it’d be like you found out that I dated a girl who was like hideously ugly, Right? Or you dated some guy who was just like totally socially awkward or weird. Like, I’d be like, why would you date that person? A little weird. Right? Yeah. Um, yeah. Been married more than once red flag I mean that’s kind
Mariia Kramer [00:34:08]:
of
Robbie Kramer [00:34:10]:
I mean I guess if you’re into like your 60s
Mariia Kramer [00:34:12]:
yeah you know
Robbie Kramer [00:34:14]:
if you’re in your like 20s 20s or 30s been married more than once. It’s definitely a red flag. If you’re in your 40s or 50s. The thing that we discussed already,
Mariia Kramer [00:34:24]:
it’s only red flag for a girl. For a guy it’s like. What, been married more than once? Yeah, more than once. And like kids after marriage. For a guy It’s not that bad that he can afford, you know help his Family and like
Robbie Kramer [00:34:39]:
I just think it means you’re jumping into things a little too quickly I mean obviously if you have 2 2
Mariia Kramer [00:34:46]:
husbands before and both of them cheated on you.
Robbie Kramer [00:34:49]:
It’s like it’s not your fault. For sure. Yeah. I mean, this is this 1. Maybe it’s been married more than twice would be a better 1. Right. Maybe this is a little too harsh, but it can obviously depends on the age too. Yeah. Yeah. Next 1. Red flag quickly falls in love repeatedly. Yeah. Like every like every time you talk to them, they’re falling in love with a new person. Oh, that’s annoying. These people are not actually in love, they’re in lust maybe they’re doing moly every day probably
Mariia Kramer [00:35:22]:
I was like I don’t know how can you all right next red flag girls who obsessively
Robbie Kramer [00:35:28]:
talk about their corporate job what corporate job is like you work at like a bank or you were so annoying you don’t want to feel like a big law firm I don’t want to you know and she just wants to talk about Yeah, no, shut up. No 1 cares about your dumb ass corporate job. Like you. Oh my God, I did it. So many women like that in New York City. So annoying. They started talking about like,
Mariia Kramer [00:35:54]:
you know, we’re against violence.
Robbie Kramer [00:35:58]:
Yeah. Um, but Oh my God, it was like, they always worked at a toilet and douche, Deloitte and douche, you know, other big like accounting firms or law firms. They just love to talk about that shit. So anyways, and ran. That’s a red flag. Anyone who’s that angry about, like me, I’m a red flag. So next 1, argues or becomes the loudest person in the room when a subject she is not a master in comes up understand When she speaks about something that she doesn’t know But she gets really angry and like becomes like obsessed about it, you know Yeah, that’s annoying Girls who hate to cook and only like to eat out No,
Mariia Kramer [00:36:46]:
red flag For sure, red flag You know, like sometimes like I have a mood that like 1 month I cook like every day 3 times per day and 1 month I’m sick of it and I want to go to the restaurant. But like girls who just hate cook is trouble.
Robbie Kramer [00:37:03]:
Yeah, they only want to eat out.
Mariia Kramer [00:37:06]:
Dicey. How are you going to have a relationship with someone who only wants to eat out? And they will gain so much weight. Can you imagine? It’s so not healthy in all those restaurants, even in healthy ones.
Robbie Kramer [00:37:17]:
All right, this one’s definitely gonna piss some people off. Red flag, girls who love horror movies. You love horror movies, don’t you?
Mariia Kramer [00:37:28]:
I don’t really. I loved horror movies when I was like 14. I would watch them all day long. Now I only love serial killers, murder mystery documentaries. I don’t watch horror. I thought you loved them, but you don’t really watch them. I only liked that 1, Get Out, But it was like so professional.
Robbie Kramer [00:37:51]:
I think I think girls who love horror movies I don’t know. They could something’s maybe loose these screws are loose I mean, it’s okay to like the occasional horror movie, Of course, but it’s like you’re obsessed with horror movies
Mariia Kramer [00:38:05]:
I am obsessed with the real stories. I’m obsessed with your
Robbie Kramer [00:38:10]:
Fairness and legality and understanding that stuff. It’s like deeper things right Horror movies are typically like They’re just trying to get like this an emotional response I think that’s probably getting down the real issue. They just want to feel scared. They just want to feel like, right? It’s not like these are deep like horror movies are typically like very low budget very
Mariia Kramer [00:38:31]:
Yeah, but there are a few of them that are really good and they’re worth to watch them, but it’s like a few. Okay, next 1. Girls who think cleaning, laundry, and other domesticated
Robbie Kramer [00:38:42]:
chores are beneath them.
Mariia Kramer [00:38:45]:
Who cleans their panties for them? I don’t know. Laundry
Robbie Kramer [00:38:49]:
or maids? She makes so much money to pay for it. Of course, that’s why it’s a red flag, right? You should be able to do your own damn chores. If she’s a rich bitch and she
Mariia Kramer [00:38:59]:
can afford a cleaner, then yes. But if she can’t, who will clean it for her?
Robbie Kramer [00:39:06]:
All right. Next 1. Bottle service girls. Kind of like, you know, it’s a slippery slope. They know how to work, you know, dangerous. They know how to work.
Mariia Kramer [00:39:25]:
And the thing that they just like work at night.
Robbie Kramer [00:39:29]:
They probably hate to go out and party because they’re there every day. Waitresses at strip clubs. Again, same reason. I’ve never been to a strip club. Well, waitress is, she doesn’t work at the strip club as a stripper, but she’s a waitress, right? I mean, if it’s a poor
Mariia Kramer [00:39:48]:
student girl who needs to pay for her apartments and she can’t find anything else and there are good money, she’s not a stripper, she’s a waiter. I mean, I’ve never been, I didn’t see who are those girls, but it can be just a student. Next 1,
Robbie Kramer [00:40:05]:
girls who work at tanning salons.
Mariia Kramer [00:40:08]:
What was the girl’s thing? This is insane, girls who work in the coffee shops. No, tanning salons specifically because they just work there because they want free tans typically. Like why would you work at tanning salon? Because you like beauty industry. It’s the same. Why would you work in nails? You want free nails? Why do you work in the hair salon? Because you want to have free haircut? I mean, but how much tanning do you need? Look, better to have tanning, fake tanning, than like be under sun and get the radiation on your body. All right.
Robbie Kramer [00:40:38]:
I think it’s a healthier way. I think we’re almost to 50 and you still don’t have any of these, right? No. Have you had 1 red flag yet? Go me. I can be loud, but I never loud about the topic that I know I’m only loud if I’m sure I think there was like 1 half red flag, but that I mean pretty good. 0 out of 40 something so far. Next 1, red flag, girls, you have already 5 and we don’t even discuss boys. Which ones? Whatever. Girls… If she has a tramp stamp. A tramp stamp is a tattoo on her lower back right above her ass.
Mariia Kramer [00:41:17]:
And first, like, I don’t like any tattoos and I would never put them but maybe because I’m a model. For me it’s totally red flag. But I think whoever wrote this 1 was like if they have a tramp stamp, they’re a tramp. Right? What is tramp? Tramp is a slut. I mean, maybe you were like 16 and you put it because you were stupid and now like you have a flag. I mean you know you can’t judge people for their teenager years but um it I don’t like it’s yeah I don’t I don’t like it, but I wouldn’t bet much
Robbie Kramer [00:41:52]:
on that 1. Next red flag, girls who love lifted trucks,
Mariia Kramer [00:41:56]:
dirt biking. Oh my God, it’s you,
Robbie Kramer [00:41:59]:
that’s black. No, no, no, I’m a guy, I’m allowed to like that. No, but it’s a red flag. Hold on, let me finish it. Girls who love lifted trucks, dirt biking, and other white trash activities.
Mariia Kramer [00:42:09]:
So bad. I don’t even like guys who like lift trucks.
Robbie Kramer [00:42:15]:
It’s so ugly. I had the sickest lifted truck. I was gonna say it like that too. I had a cool lifted truck as a high schooler, right? Now I would never buy a lifted truck. I like to ride dirt bikes and I like off-roading and stuff, but like I don’t love it. That’s the difference. You can like it. You just can’t love it. You get on this list for red flag yeah that’s weird and she probably that girl probably drinks beer for sure for sure um all right If she has friends who are super fat, foul-mouthed chicks, she’s an undercover white trash. Usually- You know what I mean, foul-mouthed? It’s like her friends, if she has a friend who’s like fat and really loud and swearing all the time, it’s like, why would you be friends with that person? No, I know like I had like a few
Mariia Kramer [00:43:07]:
acquaintances. They had like super… I can’t say that someone is ugly but like not the same level like girlfriend.
Robbie Kramer [00:43:18]:
Just on purpose to make all people like her. Yeah, but was this girl extremely obnoxious?
Mariia Kramer [00:43:23]:
No, she was really nice. She would bring on parties that other girl and obviously everyone likes her, not her girlfriend. And it’s like she was doing this on purpose, but it’s a trouble if you need to like have like not so beautiful friend to like get the, you know, attention. I think it’s also red flag. Yeah, that would probably be a little bit of red flag. But I mean, maybe they’re friends for
Robbie Kramer [00:43:46]:
forever. But it’s like if she only goes out with a girl who’s significantly uglier. Yes, she’s trying to feel extra good or something. Red flag, girls who use douchebag as a salutation like hey what up douchebag. If
Mariia Kramer [00:44:04]:
someone would tell me this I would not speak to that person. That’s bad.
Robbie Kramer [00:44:09]:
I know a few girls that say stuff like that. It’s kind of like the foul-mouthed 1. Red flag, Botox under 30.
Mariia Kramer [00:44:16]:
Oh, it’s a total red flag. When I see girls that’s like, sometimes I see girls and I think, oh my God, she looks like so good for being probably like 32. She looks amazing. And after I find out that they’re my age, they’re 24,
Robbie Kramer [00:44:32]:
You know? If you do a lot of you know plastic work or filler that sort of stuff you end up looking old really quickly. Yeah. So if she’s under 30 she’s already doing Botox she’s gonna look pretty bad in her 40s and 50s. So yeah huge red flag. All right, this 1. Here we go. Red flag. Virgins who will take it in the ass and still claim to be a virgin.
Mariia Kramer [00:44:59]:
I knew girls like that. And I was like, what? Okay.
Robbie Kramer [00:45:03]:
You’re not a virgin
Mariia Kramer [00:45:06]:
it’s anal sex it’s not just anal exactly
Robbie Kramer [00:45:11]:
next 1 if her father is uber wealthy like ultra wealthy uber like a taxi well It’s like, what? Uber means like, exceptionally, like awesome. It’s like, Uber wealthies means exceptionally wealthy. Ultra wealthy is another way to say it. Like if her dad is, like he’s a billionaire, right? No, she can’t date because her dad is a billionaire? No, it’s a red flag. She’s a red flag? Well, I mean, good luck living up to, you know, if you’re also not like a billionaire, you’re listening to this podcast and you’re dating. I mean,
Mariia Kramer [00:45:51]:
listen, if you’re dating a girl who’s a dad, I mean, that’s good. It doesn’t make any sense. It doesn’t mean that dad is like insane and he’s bad and He will judge you. He doesn’t care. He wants her. He’s
Robbie Kramer [00:46:02]:
not gonna be happy. The point is she might be extremely like, you know, accustomed to a certain lifestyle that maybe you can’t provide. I mean, yeah, it happens. But if you can, what, Why is it the problem? It’s just a red flag. It’s like if she’s extremely wealthy,
Mariia Kramer [00:46:19]:
it could be a problem down the road. I mean, obviously if you make 5, 000 per month and she spends like 50 per month, you just can’t maintain the same lifestyle. But like if you can,
Robbie Kramer [00:46:31]:
it’s not the red flag. All right, you’re going to love this 1. They have or love pit bulls.
Mariia Kramer [00:46:37]:
Oh my God.
Robbie Kramer [00:46:39]:
It’s bad. Huge red flag. Like if you’re going to get a dog and you’re a girl and you get a freaking pit bull, you’re just asking, you’re asking for a lawsuit, any killer dog, right? Like any dog who can kill you or can kill it. Like, I mean, some dogs obviously can, you know, like you have a husky, right? And I have a German Shepherd mix, right? But he’s not like a killer German Shepherd. Some German Shepherds can be very, you know, aggressive but Wiley is not that, right? And Texas is like the biggest lover ever. But like, if you get like a pit bull, it’s usually, it’s so dicey, you know? It’s like, why would you get a dog that’s such a huge liability? Usually, you’ve got all sorts of other sort of issues going on. All right, next 1. Girls who hang out with seedy characters, like drug dealers, that sort of thing. But I mean that’s kind of a dumb generic 1. Of course she hangs out with steamy characters, that’s a red flag. Yeah. All right, um, next 1. Girls who are obsessed with a particular type of man in uniform. Like if she’s obsessed with firefighters, or if she’s obsessed with policemen.
Mariia Kramer [00:47:50]:
Why is she not?
Robbie Kramer [00:47:52]:
I mean… Like she’s obsessed with policemen, she wants to date a policeman, why is that a problem? If you’re not a policeman. You’re dating a girl who’s obsessed with a fireman and you’re not… Who’s obsessed with a man in uniform but you’re not that guy. Red flag.
Mariia Kramer [00:48:05]:
Yeah. Then it’s weird.
Robbie Kramer [00:48:07]:
Girls who don’t have Instagram, huge red flag. Exactly.
Mariia Kramer [00:48:14]:
I mean, I know some girls that, but it’s more girls like 35 plus. Some of them, they’re just like too busy to have it. And they have some maybe like Twitter or like Facebook or something. And
Robbie Kramer [00:48:29]:
like Some girls are not like social in the way they don’t want posts about their life. And some girls have like boring lives. It’s just so normal to have 1. It’s like if you don’t have 1, it’s kind of a red flag. Next 1, red flag. Girls who refuse to drink protein shakes.
Mariia Kramer [00:48:51]:
It’s ridiculous. I mean, but why would you refuse to drink a protein shake? Girls who refuse eat sushi. Girls who refuse wear sandals. Girls who refuse…
Robbie Kramer [00:49:03]:
I don’t know. I mean, if you’re not willing to eat a protein shake, it’s like, I don’t know. You don’t want a protein shake. Like you, no, you will never drink a protein shake. Who cares? Who put it there? It’s such a stupid idiot who likes protein shakes put it there. It just doesn’t make any sense. Yeah, I don’t know why that’s the point. I hate cinnamon. I refuse
Mariia Kramer [00:49:22]:
to eat cinnamon. That’s different. That’s different. Maria’s red flag. She doesn’t eat cinnamon. The cinnamon’s different, I think. The point is like a protein shake
Robbie Kramer [00:49:30]:
is like something to eat
Mariia Kramer [00:49:32]:
before or after a workout. And it’s like, I would. If she doesn’t want. All right. She doesn’t want, she wants to get skinny. I agree, that’s a stupid 1. She doesn’t want extra protein.
Robbie Kramer [00:49:40]:
All right, next red flag. Girls who post nondescript condescending bullshit, like, sometime you just don’t know who your real friends are.
Mariia Kramer [00:49:51]:
Yeah, that’s horseshit.
Robbie Kramer [00:49:53]:
That’s a pretty good 1. Like, if they’re posting that shit on social media, it’s like, why would you post that? It’s so lame. All right. Girls who have their Instagram or Facebook profile pic on a yacht. She’s rich because… No, like a bikini yacht, like a boats and hoes. Okay, if my dad has a yacht, then I love… It’s only your profile picture. You can have a photo of yourself on a yacht in your Instagram. It’s just your profile. I don’t have any picture on the yacht. I know but I’m saying if a girl’s profile photo is in a bikini on a yacht, that’s her profile photo,
Mariia Kramer [00:50:28]:
that’s a little dicey. That’s kind of a red flag. It depends what is her lifestyle.
Robbie Kramer [00:50:32]:
Well she’s obviously looking for attention.
Mariia Kramer [00:50:34]:
I mean if the girl likes, how do you call this sport? Swimming? Sailing? Sailing? If the girl is just a sailor… Not that sort of yacht. That’s a sailboat.
Robbie Kramer [00:50:50]:
I’m talking about a yacht. Like she’s looking hot. That’s her profile picture. Her main photo is like her posing in a bikini on a yacht red flag
Mariia Kramer [00:51:00]:
Maybe the guy wants really hot girl
Robbie Kramer [00:51:03]:
Yeah, but if you’re only going for hot, that’s a problem, right? Like you should find a girl who’s hot and cool and has a good head on her shoulders, right? But he doesn’t want her to have a long relationship, he just wants to… That’s exactly what I said. If you’re just trying to fuck, these don’t matter. It’s a red flag for marriage. Remember? Okay.
Mariia Kramer [00:51:25]:
I mean, it’s weird, but the red flag. What is her lifestyle?
Robbie Kramer [00:51:31]:
Yeah, and if her lifestyle is her constantly being on yachts. She’s super rich in her parents. I’m not talking about that. I’m talking about the girl who’s like a sugar baby. No, it’s bad. Obviously. Yeah, a girl who’s super rich where her parents own yachts would never have her profile photo of her in a bikini on a yacht, right? Ever. She would be very classy and you know, it just wouldn’t happen. All right, next red flag. Girls who have at least 4 different colors in their hair.
Mariia Kramer [00:52:05]:
4?
Robbie Kramer [00:52:07]:
That’s weird. Right? Like multiple colors, right? It’s like, they probably have a few screws loose in their head. Next red flag. Girls who wear juicy couture sweatsuits that say juicy on the ass.
Mariia Kramer [00:52:27]:
Say juicy?
Robbie Kramer [00:52:29]:
You ever seen this? No. They’re out of style. So, you know, this list is a little bit old. So, um, all right. I don’t think you will find this 1. Hilarious. Red flag. Girls who are from Barcelona who speak perfect English, but when asked where she is from says Barcelona. Says Barcelona. You think that’s
Mariia Kramer [00:52:55]:
a red flag? I think in Barcelona they pronounce Barcelona. They say Barcelona,
Robbie Kramer [00:53:01]:
right? But if she speaks perfect English, right? And you ask her where she’s from and she says Barthelona.
Mariia Kramer [00:53:08]:
When you ask my name I don’t say Maria as you say in America, I say Maria as you say in Ukraine. But that’s your name, that’s different. No, but it’s the same, like in America you pronounce my name, all of you say always Maria, Maria. You say Maria. I say Maria. When people ask my name, I say Maria, it’s because it’s how my name sounds. And after you say Maria, but they never say Maria. It would be like a girl from Paris. She’s in America,
Robbie Kramer [00:53:33]:
right? And you ask her and she speaks perfect English and you ask where are you from and she goes, Paris.
Mariia Kramer [00:53:40]:
I don’t think it’s cute.
Robbie Kramer [00:53:42]:
I think it’s red flag.
Mariia Kramer [00:53:45]:
You’re so bad. Bartholomew. Come on, man. You have so many red flags. And I did marry you. All right.
Robbie Kramer [00:53:57]:
Next 1. Red flag. Girls who ask how many other girls you’re dating on date number 2. Too early to ask.
Mariia Kramer [00:54:12]:
You would never ask. Of course. How many girls are dating? Yeah,
Robbie Kramer [00:54:19]:
weird. There’s another 1 like that earlier. Next red flag, girls who date younger guys. I don’t think I’ve ever met a normal girl that dated significantly younger guys. It’s weird, right?
Mariia Kramer [00:54:36]:
Girl who dates younger guys? Yeah.
Robbie Kramer [00:54:39]:
She’s sugar mommy. I mean, that’s a red flag. If you find, if you start dating a girl And you found out she dated a ton of younger guys. My friend, she’s like 35. She dates like 17 year old. Okay. But what if she started dating a guy who was like 40? Do you think that wouldn’t be a red flag for him? I think it’d be a red flag.
Mariia Kramer [00:55:04]:
I think love doesn’t have age.
Robbie Kramer [00:55:09]:
Well, this isn’t girls who date older guys. That’s like, if you’re… Maybe you can date whatever age you want. We have a 17 year age difference, right? If it’s legal,
Mariia Kramer [00:55:21]:
you can date any age you want. And I don’t think it’s a red flag. Okay.
Robbie Kramer [00:55:27]:
Next 1. Girls who always talk about what they want to do, but they never follow through with anything.
Mariia Kramer [00:55:37]:
Oh, I hate that kind of people.
Robbie Kramer [00:55:41]:
Yeah, that’s annoying. Next red flag, girls who literally drink while they drive.
Mariia Kramer [00:55:47]:
Drink alcohol? I’ve never seen someone like this.
Robbie Kramer [00:55:51]:
Girls who casually mention previous domestic abuse instances on a first date. If you’re talking to a girl who’s talking about domestic abuse on a first date. You’re becoming an abuser here. The person being abused and just want to share her experience. So these are now getting ridiculous, but these are kind of funny. Girls who move to Vegas ever for any reason. Who wrote this list? I think we waste our time on this list. Well, there were some good ones. Let’s see. I
Mariia Kramer [00:56:24]:
have 0 trust to the person who say that girls who doesn’t like sushi
Robbie Kramer [00:56:29]:
is a red flag. I mean, some of them are ridiculous. I agree, but some are good. That’s why I’m asking you for your opinion. Girls who can’t look in a mirror without doing a duck face.
Mariia Kramer [00:56:40]:
It wasn’t like 2012, man.
Robbie Kramer [00:56:43]:
Yeah, all right. Drives like a man. Bobs and weaves aggressively. You think everyone is doing this right now? Really? Have you seen a person like that? Some of these were written a long time ago. Red flag. She drives like a man, extremely aggressive, leans back, and drives with 1 arm. That’s definitely a red flag. You see a girl driving like that. It’s super masculine. If she’s a masculine girl, you can’t change it. All right. Red flag. Girls who talk about big dicks, a.k.a. Size queens. If you don’t have a big neck that’s a red flag next red flag girls who think porn is gross and refuse to watch it
Mariia Kramer [00:57:27]:
I agree gross Yeah, but you’ve watched it before. Yeah, but I never liked it. Yeah, I don’t refuse, but I never liked it.
Robbie Kramer [00:57:35]:
I mean, you’ve watched it sometimes, so. I know, but… You never refuse to watch it. Yeah, but it’s not like I will ever watch it.
Mariia Kramer [00:57:43]:
Like, because it’s a fight with your mental health. Yeah, I mean if you consistently watch it for sure yeah, I mean I can watch it like
Robbie Kramer [00:57:51]:
Girl who has porn booked marked on her computer 1 bookmarked like she has a tab saved of porn on her computer
Mariia Kramer [00:58:02]:
You have to rest like she doesn’t wish she’s really
Robbie Kramer [00:58:08]:
That’s life right If you’re like on the outlier situation it’s probably a red flag. Next red flag, girl who doesn’t like having her pussy licked. That’s weird. Yeah, I mean she probably has some you know, big time sort of sexual issues and therapist because who doesn’t like that? Like not judging some sister red flag. It’s an insecurity, right? I don’t think it’s a red flag.
Mariia Kramer [00:58:35]:
It’s insecurity and you won’t have enjoy full sexual life with that person. But I can call it a red flag.
Robbie Kramer [00:58:46]:
Alright, these next ones are not really red flags, but they’re just like funny. So girls who are obsessed with country music, girls with short hair are crazy, and girls who shave their head are beyond.
Mariia Kramer [00:59:02]:
And also girls who shave their hair and they donate it to the cancer kids who lose their hair.
Robbie Kramer [00:59:10]:
That’s different. That’s totally different. Like she shaved her head because she, I don’t know.
Mariia Kramer [00:59:16]:
Because she donated it to the… That’s different. But what is the difference? It’s just like everything I say is different. No, there are some people… I told you that’s not a red flag. It’s just silly. It’s just silly.
Robbie Kramer [00:59:27]:
Okay, next 1. This is funny because I just did this. If they use quote fingers to make points, they probably suck. You do this all the time. I’m a red flag. Oh my god I mean sometimes you have to do it. I do it when I’m on video because it’s like Not in like
Mariia Kramer [01:00:00]:
Someone did is just you know, like a really rare to describe when you really need those. Yeah, I feel like that’s me. You do this all the time. I don’t think so. I’m a red flag.
Robbie Kramer [01:00:12]:
Red flag, if you’re not a stoner And you start dating a girl who’s a huge stoner, like, like weed. That’s you’re going to have issues.
Mariia Kramer [01:00:22]:
Like it’s just it doesn’t really mix well. Yeah, or both of you need to smoke with or both of you shouldn’t smoke. It’s the same with the drugs. It’s like 1 of you are doing cooking and 1 of you are not. It’s just not the way. Or like, I don’t drink.
Robbie Kramer [01:00:38]:
And he drinks as well. Yeah. But I drink how often? He’s a red flag. I, I, I’m definitely, I’m a, I was a walking red flag, but. So that’s the red flag list. There’s a lot of other completely ridiculous ones that I didn’t list on here, but overall, what did you think of that list? You really, I don’t think you have any. So Can you pat me on the back on a girl with no red flags? Thank you very much. Yeah, I hadn’t gone through this in years, so.
Mariia Kramer [01:01:09]:
You top date and remove the sushi 1.
Robbie Kramer [01:01:13]:
So If you happen to be dating a girl with a lot of those red flags, you should probably get in touch with me. We should talk about it because marrying the wrong girl is really costly. Luckily, I haven’t done that. And I’ve worked with many clients who have and they’ve told me how costly it is. So beware of red flags. And until next time, thanks, baby. Great commentary there.
Mariia Kramer [01:01:41]:
Thank you. Bye.
Robbie Kramer [01:01:45]:
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