Show Notes:
In this episode Robbie interviews Layla London, the girl next door who recently decided to explore her sexuality. After a 3.5 year, self imposed, dry spell she woke up one day and said “What the heck am I doing to myself?”. Why have I just shut off that side of my sexuality? I need physical contact badly. I decided to stop “wasting the pretty” and get out there! Having set out on my “sexual road trip” I’m scratching things off my sex bucket list. I’m getting laid, exploring “kinks” (a word I really didn’t know anything about before this), having fun, sifting through the emotions it stirs up in me, blogging and podcasting about it anonymously.
- What made Layla decide to embark on a no-holds-barred journey of sexual self discovery? [02:00]
- What Layla put on her sexual bucket list… [06:50]
- Was she looking for a variety of partners or one main type? [14:06]
- Layla’s bizarre flavor of bisexuality… [14:29]
- The magic number of partners you should be casually sleeping with to keep things drama free… [16:22]
- The surprising revelation about the depths of relationships and love in open relationships vs. closed… [18:20]
- The only way to rekindle attraction with someone who you’re not in constant communication with… [23:20]
- Layla’s ideal type of man… [26:30]
- How much she adhered to her height requirement… [29:31]
- Exploring DP double penetration… [33:00]
- Layla’s first sex party experience and why it didn’t live up to the hype… 35:00]
- How did she explain to new potential lovers that she wasn’t interested in monogamy… [40:30]
- How Layla’s signals to men that she is attracted to them… [43:08]
- Layla divulges the metrics of her online dating experience in terms of the number of daily messages and how she responded… [46:25]
- Which messages would she open? [48:30]
- How much time do you spend going through messages per day? [50:30]
- How you can better succeed with online dating by comparing it to a sales funnel… [53:38]
- How you can tell if you’re going to a date or meet and greet? [55:20]
- When should you exchange social media? [59:06]
- When should you get physical? [1:02:00]
- What to do if online dating is a struggle for you? [1:04:15]
- After living out these sexual bucket list fantasies can you ever go back to monogamy? [1:08:08]
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