In this episode Robbie invites on John Cooper, a London based dating and social coach who teaches men how to escape from the pitfalls of pickup artistry and evolve into social artists.
Show Notes:
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John’s story of how pickup made him worse and took him further away from the whole reason he got into the game. (02:00)
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The comment from his best friend that changed his course… (03:45)
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Why many guys get into pickup to fill a void from a breakup or broken heart and how to avoid the trap of becoming addicted to validation from women. (05:45)
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When should drop game? (09:46)
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Is game a cult? (10:06)
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How cults work, how to spot them, and how to avoid getting sucked in… (11:30)
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A dangerous lens to see the world through… (12:30)
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The best way to relate to women… (13:00)
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Should you use opening lines? (20:15)
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How to tell if you’re getting too technical and failing to access a flow state in your interactions with women (21:30)
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For analytical guys…. “a structure to lose the structure” (27:45)
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Why “letting go” is necessary to reach the next step and mastery. (29:45)
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Can you feel free and single when in a relationship? (34:50)
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Creating the possibility of a committed partnership while still giving freedom to your partner… (36:40)
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Are humans designed to have a soul-mate or monogamy? (37:05)
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Where to meet women who are open to non-monogamous relationships (38:30)
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A joke on picking up “New Age” chicks… (39:30)
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Are women more traditional in Eastern Europe? (40:50)
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Poland vs. Ukraine (42:00)
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Do people speak more English in Western or Eastern Europe? (43:00)
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The structure of Robbie’s Leverage Program (43:45)
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The structure of John’s Academy & Immersion (45:00)
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How to go from a pickup artist to a social artist (45:20)
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How John started his business and grew it to achieve financial freedom (46:00)
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How much content do you need to create to reach a point where you no longer need to hunt for business… (48:00)
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