Showing Passion or Intelligence About Something I absolutely love when a man goes on excited and spirited tangents about things. It could be something as significant as the global water crisis or something as simple as how annoying your love/hate relationship with autocorrect is. It may sound strange, but intelligence and passion are huge big draws for my attention. On the contrary - they could just have the glittery-eyed expression when they explain things to me and realize that I get it. Most people tend to get frustrated and embarrassed explaining things, but I see patience and the … [Read more...]
10 Things that Never Fail to Turn Women On…
Guest Post By Genevieve Confidence I know it sounds cliche, but the first word that comes into my head when I'm thinking about the difference between what turns me on, and what doesn't is CONFIDENCE. There is a reason Robbie chose to name his company - drum roll, please....... Inner Confidence. If you don't have even the slightest bit of confidence, everything I go into below is going to be a lot harder to achieve. Even if you're a bum, you deserve to have some confidence, so don't sell yourself short and realize your worth in this world regardless of what issues or problems you're … [Read more...]
13 Text Messages to Never Send Me…
I'm writing this article from the most unfiltered point of view I can to give you, single guys who are looking for "hot women" the best and most truthful peek into how these girls often operate. I don't make the rules - I simply just like to call them out. Enjoy! Whether we like it or not, texting has become the norm. More than the norm, actually - it has now surpassed the importance of a phone call within a dating scenario, in my opinion. A text message is a fleeting, half-committed way of reaching out to someone, and while this can be frustrating... It can also be used to … [Read more...]
The Magical, Mysterious Art of Selling the Dream
Okay, in reality it’s not that hard to sell the dream but far too many marketers, salesmen and business folks miss the mark. It’s costly. Think about in it terms of conversion rates. Not selling the dream causes bad conversion – few prospects become clients. However, when you effectively sell the dream, conversion rates not only go through the roof but up-sell because it's literally effortless. Sell the Vision Don’t try to sell the product or service, sell the dream. Don’t sell the technicalities and the specs; sell the vision that includes the person you’re pitching to. Don’t stick … [Read more...]
Three Ways to be a Smarter Person
This article is going to basically lay out 3 ways that you can become a smarter person that achieves more, gets more, does more and IS more. Some of these things you may have heard of, and you’ve likely seen these traits in high achievers, but now is the time to start applying them to your own life. #1) Improve Your Math and Probability Skills What is the probability that you will be successful in life? Do you have any clue? What is the probability that that girl will go home with you tonight? What is the probability that if you choose this guy over that guy that you will meet the deadline? … [Read more...]
Why Do Women Flake?
We’ve all been flaked on and it sucks. Hi, my name is Robbie and I've been a professional dating coach for the last 15 years. I was sick and tired of being flaked on, especially by women I met through dating apps online, so I sought out to find a solution for myself... and I did. I ended up marrying my dream girl and before that I had so many options that I was the one typically doing the flaking. I lay out exactly how I did it in this video. Go watch it real quick, and then come back and read this article. Regardless of how good-looking, charismatic or genuinely interesting we may be... … [Read more...]
Meeting Women Through Tinder
For all of us who are feeling as though their online dating lives have been dim and dismal lately, we finally have something better, more simplified and modernized than more traditional sites like Match and eHarmony. There is no denying it: Tinder is the newest craze in the dating world. If you’re not familiar with tinder, you’re a nerd living under a rock and I’m not going to bother explaining what it is. Due to the platform, the strategy is slightly different but all the rules of dating and more specifically, online dating, still apply. Building Your Profile: My favorite part about … [Read more...]
Online Dating
Online dating is now the second most common way that people are getting together. The good news is, you have access to a ton of beautiful women by a click of your mouse. The bad news is, so does every other guy. It’s a very competitive market, and most guys who put up a profile and send a few messages do not get the response they were anticipating. Their messages go unread, women don’t respond, and very few visit their profile. A hot girl will receive on average 25-35 messages per day! This is in addition to her normal social life, which is jam-packed with social opportunities, … [Read more...]
8 Differences Between Winners and Losers
Through the years I have compiled a subconscious list of things that winners do and losers do: word choice, behavior, etc. A lot of this will be anecdotal evidence, but that's good enough for me. A client of ours said earlier, "I need a game plan" or something like that. 100% of my broke friends say things like that. "I think (but can't prove) I need a plan" is an excuse to not do anything. You get to feel okay about yourself masturbating and sitting on your lazy ass 24 hours a day getting nothing done cause you don't have a plan, cause boy oh boy once you have that magical plan you … [Read more...]
If She Could Only See Me for the Great Guy I Am
I know a lot of very wealthy, very successful, socially untrained men. Every single one of them is unhappy/feels like he's missing something important in life. In my experience, most men think they will be at a park one day and a conversation will magically happen with a gorgeous girl who is sweet, nice, educated and sees you for all your amazing non-shallow qualities. You will have true love and happiness forever. It does not work that way. This girl is attracted to confidence, leadership, and she will not see through to your amazing non-shallow qualities. Also, she has 400 guys hitting on … [Read more...]
Kill Your Approach Anxiety and Meet More Women
Who thinks it's a coincidence that the guys who improve the fastest with women are approaching the most? If you say, "Yeah, coincidence"... Immediate punch in face!! I've now been coaching guys in this field for a decade. Every dude out there complains about approach anxiety: "I don't know what to say," "I'll do it later." Excuse, excuse, excuse. I was introduced to PUA shortcuts via The Game in February of 2006. I finished the book in a day and went out that night to a bar in Mission Beach called the Beachcomber. It never even crossed my mind whether or not I was gonna approach. I … [Read more...]
A Surefire Way To Start A Conversation with a Woman
When you see a woman you want to approach, is your first thought almost always, “What do I say to her?” If so, this article is for you. To come up with the words for a great approach, I use a process I created called the The Play-by-Play (TM). It's very simple; all it is is a description of exactly what I did to come talk to her. Kind of like how a sports announcer would describe a play that just happened. Here are 4 examples: Girls on the bench with Pablo: I was with my friend Pablo when we saw two beautiful women seated on a bench. Pablo suggested we approach them, but I … [Read more...]
Why am I struggling with women?
If everyone likes you, chances are you're struggling with women. What if they don’t like me? What if they think I’m a jerk? What if I make them angry? What if they talk trash behind my back? “I had a realization today,” said Marty, one of my students. “What I realized is that to be successful and confident, not everyone is going to like me… And if I am pushing myself, I will most likely annoy and piss some people off because they may see me as a jerk, creepy or arrogant. But I can’t let that affect how I feel about myself.” Marty had this realization during a particular … [Read more...]
The Secret Ingredient for Lots of Success with Women
Back in the day, I was out with a small group of students at a new bar in west L.A. Prior to going out, we did a bunch of drills to help them get over their approach anxiety and have fun opening conversations. We were using some fairly edgy openers. But all of the guys in attendance had zero approach anxiety by the end of the night, and we all had a great time. How is it possible to say edgy things and deliver risky openers without worrying about what happens afterward? A conversation I had with one of my students who is a little older and less comfortable in bar environments really … [Read more...]
Avoid the Chode Crystal at All Costs
Chode Crystal: A chode crystal is known as a group of guys in their social circle at a bar or club who are too afraid to go over and talk to new people. They crystallize in the same position, not moving with their drink held up to their chest. Kind of like wallflowers. The chode crystals can get pretty big, and it’s a bunch of chode guys just looking in their group where the most entertainment is. When I first heard this expression from my friend, Monish, I almost died laughing. Is it a bad thing to stand around at a bar with your buddies and just hang out? Of course not! I play in men’s … [Read more...]
Is Your Appearance Helping or Hurting You?
About four years ago, I went out on a series of dates with a beautiful Persian girl. After the third date, she stopped responding to my texts and phone calls. This really shocked me because she seemed totally into me and things were going well. Six months later, I decided to send her a text message: “Hey ____, I’m trying to improve my dating life and I was wondering if you could tell me why you decided to stop seeing me. Please be brutally honest - I can take it. Thanks!” She responded to the text and said that she stopped seeing me because on our last date when I was wearing … [Read more...]
Don’t Make the Mistake of Setting the Wrong Goals
Have you ever gone out to a bar with the goal of getting a phone number, getting a kiss, getting some action or having great interactions? If your answer is “no,” then I know you're a liar! We've all been there and you may be wondering, “What’s wrong with doing that?” When we set a goal and it doesn’t happen, most of us beat ourselves up and decide to try harder next time. Next time rolls around and since we have decided to try harder, now we’re gonna make the goal even tougher and push ourselves even more. It doesn’t happen, and we beat ourselves up again. The problem is not … [Read more...]
8 Tips to Maintain Sexual Tension in a Relationship
Today we have another excellent post by my good friend Eric Disco from Approach Anxiety. “Okay, so you got the girl,” guys ask me, “but at what point can you just relax and let your guard down?” The short answer: Never. Look at it this way: When can you stop being a man around women and just be submissive and sexless? Never. Once you get used to it, maintaining the sexual tension in relationships is actually quite easy and fun – as long as you set it up that way from the start. Much of relationship management is not slipping into nice guy mode and instead always remaining a … [Read more...]
How To Get Out of Your Head and Stop Overthinking Things
Being a smart person is usually a good thing; however, when it comes to meeting and dating women, it can be a hindrance at times. There are many ways that overthinking about dating and meeting women hurts you. I have a few suggestions for guys out there who are confused at times and don’t know what the next step is. Be your own best friend At some time in point, there has to be a shift in the way you talk to yourself about meeting and dating women. Instead of the voice that beats you up, you’ve got to be your own best friend and pat yourself on the back for trying. … [Read more...]
Ask for Forgiveness, Not Permission
One of my clients recently said to me, “I feel like you’ve given me permission to speak my mind.” He went on to talk about how he had always felt disrespected and belittled by his older brother but now he has the courage to stand up to him and tell him how he feels. I think that's really cool, and it has EVERYTHING to do with confidently attracting women. I used to be the classic “inauthentic nice guy” you hear about in the seduction community. I couldn’t handle confrontation, so I made sure to keep my mouth shut and avoid making people angry. I thought this was a good strategy … [Read more...]
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