How to Push/Pull and Build Sexual Tension…
Hi, my name is Robbie and I've been a professional dating coach for the last 15 years. Before or after reading this article I recommend you take this quiz to understand the exact reason why you're struggling with women and how to overcome it so you start changing your results today. For most men searching for dating advice, the stages of development when it comes to being comfortable creating sexual tension are as followed: Stage 1. Boring nice guy with no edge Stage 2. Creepy Pepe Le Pew sex maniac Stage 3. The perfect balance Most guys start in stage 1 because of normal social and sexual … [Read more...]
How to get to get hooked up when you go out… Cut the line, get free drinks!
Between coaching guys in my Leverage Program and going out with my non-client friends, I'm out at bars/clubs at night a LOT. And if you're in a big city like Los Angeles, New York, or Miami, a lot of the better more exclusive bars/clubs will have door guys and a long line to get in. If you hate standing in that line, then continue reading this for my tips on how to bypass that line and get hooked up when you go out at night. Example #1 First time you go somewhere, get names. When you walk in, ask the bouncer's name and shake his hand. When a bartender serves you a drink, say “thanks, … [Read more...]
“You Gonna Pay” – Why Every Man Who Feels Pain In Their Love Life Should Hire A Dating Coach
I was listening to a client of mine named Peter complain about how expensive drinks, dinners and dates are. He said he just went on a date, spent $120 and got no love. She wouldn’t even hold his hand. But Peter is no Casanova, in fact, most women think he’s gay. I told him that pimpin ain’t easy or cheap and he had a very long road of hard work ahead of him. I then explained the following. Most people only think of penny out, good or service in. Penny in, penny out. They don't take time to measure anything else. In economics we talk about "utility": An economic term referring … [Read more...]
Party Planning – How To Plan The Perfect Birthday Party For Your Buddy At The Club
My buddy John’s birthday was yesterday. We had originally discussed doing something for it and then he sent me a text saying "nah too much work ill skip on big bday". You'll see that I said "bullshit, I’ll plan it for you". I also invited my buddy James and his wife + a buddy (life beast) who brought a girl. That put my head count at 3 guys 7 girls that I brought to the party. I also had my girl get all the mixers, appetizers, etc ($250). We set up all the stuff and people came rolling in. My buddy Robbie pulled one of the top 5 most criminal moves in my book. He invited James who is an … [Read more...]
Jedi Mind Tricks
Picture a triangle: one point is thoughts, another is actions, and the third is feelings. One of the biggest ideas in the psychology of the mind is the relationship between thoughts, actions, and feelings. We act as if all these things are separate, when in reality, they all influence and control each other. This triangle is a great model because it shows every relationship between these. Thoughts affect our actions (I decide to approach a girl so I do it), actions affect our feelings (I bitch out and don’t approach so I feel guilty), and feelings affect our thoughts (I feel the pain of … [Read more...]
9 Simple Conversation Hacks – How To Turn Any Interaction In Your Favor
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Why Most Guys Suck At Connecting With Women
We’ve talked on this blog about how one of the most important skills you can develop is social awareness. But this can a big abstract concept, so let’s break it down into smaller skills you can practice. When you look at guys who are great with women, or more generally, anyone with good social awareness, they perform a bunch of smaller actions that add up to a killer ability to communicate and get what they want. Knowing social protocol conveys that you’re a competent guy who has his stuff together. In social psychology, researchers have found three main categories that people tend talk … [Read more...]
Strengthening Your Social Muscles
Arguably, social awareness is one of the most attractive traits to women. Fortunately, it’s more of a skill than a trait. So forget the idea that you’re either born with or your aren’t. But why is social awareness one of the most important traits you can develop? And why is it also one of the most attractive traits women are subconsciously wired to respond to? First, let’s talk about what it is. Social awareness is your ability to make the people around you feel understood and make them feel comfortable with you. It’s being smart about human relationships and interactions. This includes … [Read more...]
The 21 Convention is BACK!
My favorite personal growth event of all time and one of the only events I endorse is coming back after a 2 year hiatus in October to Tampa, Florida. I hosted both the London 2012 and Austin 2012 21 Conventions put on by Anthony Johnson and I've never met a cooler, more down to earth, walking their path to greatness, athletic, cool and eager to learn group of guys. I realize that last sentence was full of grammatical errors but you get my point. Click Here for More Info If you want your life to improve, you've got to start spending time with people who will make you better. If … [Read more...]
Knowledge For Men Podcast
I recently recorded a podcast with Andrew Ferebee, founder of Knowledge For Men. They have a podcast where they feature today’s most successful leaders who share their incredible stories and life lessons to help you get the life you want in the areas of health, wealth, relationships and personal growth. I went on the show to talk about facing your fears and how to become a social genius to get the life you want. Check it out here: … [Read more...]
Why Are Women Ignoring Me? + 7 Remedies
Remember - in an exchange with a random girl you must provide some value. There are millions of different ways to do this- jokes, fashion, long stares, being good looking, amazing body language, interesting conversation, mentoring, etc. I like to think of a new female exchange like this- she is sort of like a rich potential investor. Why would a Centi-Millionaire ($100m+) want to talk to you (or me)? Everyone wants their time, attention, and resources. You need to have something cool to offer. Walking up and saying "I'm bored, talk to me" is a zero because what would an investor say? … [Read more...]
3 Keys To Feeling More Confident
How would your life be different if you had more confidence? If you suddenly felt more confidence, but nothing else in your life changed, would that be enough? There’s no one who would answer yes to this. That’s because confidence on its own is next to useless. Confidence is in reality just a means to an end. It’s a way of bringing the things into your life that you value. These are different for everyone, but I’m sure you can relate to what most guys want: hotter women, a better social circle, and a more exciting lifestyle. Confidence can get you these things, but it isn’t these … [Read more...]
5 Steps To Smoothly Physically Escalate & Use Push/Pull
When I say investing in a chick, I mean giving her attention, touching her, buying her things, showing love and/or anything that signifies that you care. The one thing that every dude does who sucks with girls is invest way too much before she starts investing in you. Somewhere along the line, we got the stupid idea stuck in our nice guy heads that if you do nice things for people, they will do nice things back. This may be true for some social interactions, like being nice to your waiter at a restaurant will usually yield better service but it's the opposite for attractive women because … [Read more...]
25 Ways to Know if You’re Dating a Grown-Ass Man
1. He involves you in things on his own. He makes you a part of what's going on and always includes you. This is one of the best feelings there is; being included automatically by someone you like or love. If you have to ask or put effort into be included, you were probably never really welcome in the first place, as sad as that sounds. And if this is the case, I think it's safe to say that your efforts would be better spent on another person. 2. When he goes out with you, he doesn't feel the need to change who he is to impress you/others. Ugh, the chameleon. There's just something annoying … [Read more...]
Your Mood Is A Terrible Indicator Of Your Progress!
Most self-help gurus say that you have to eliminate your negative thoughts in order to improve your life. Guess what? They're wrong. Having the thought “I’m not going to approach that girl” is fine if you ignore it and approach her anyway. Having the thought “I’m fat” is fine if it motivates you to push yourself in the gym. It's what you do with thoughts that matters, not what the thoughts actually say. Negative thoughts and emotion are only a problem if they prevent you from changing your behavior and taking consistent action. Most of the time, what your mind tells is actually a … [Read more...]
How To Throw A Party- 21 Tips
#1 Girls will flake. A large % of them. #2 Dudes will bring dudes. #3 Always have enough alcohol and mixers. You can return what you don't use (if you are poor or don't plan on any future parties). Just make sure you keep some hidden and only break it out if needed as some addicts can empty everything before you know it. If you know any such people, get them enrolled at a Miami addiction rehab centre to help them. #4 have sufficient cups/glasses/wine glasses/shot glasses etc #5 A good play list always helps. #6 Invite every girl you have ever met or know. Relax- 90% of them … [Read more...]
36 Ways To Turn Off Women…
I've already written a list of the biggest turn-ons in a man...now comes time for the list of what not to do. Jealousy when not played off well. Everyone gets jealous, it's a natural thing. It's how you act on your jealousy that defines you as a person. If a guy either 1. Starts pouting like a child or 2. Starts raging like a psycho in response to myself receiving attention from another man, it's a big turn off. The correct thing to do: let it happen, notice it...then take another sip of your whiskey as you whisper in her ear about how her ass is in demand, and it's yours. Then, remind her … [Read more...]
What Would You Say To Your 15 Year Old Self About Picking Up Girls?
One of the things I have my clients in my Leverage Program do once a quarter is to submit an essay about where they were 3 months ago and what they've learned since, so that they can consciously see how far they've come. A lot of times guys are so focused on the struggles and looking up at how much higher they have to climb on the mountain that they forget to look back and see how far they've already gone. A little progress every day goes a long way. Sometimes you have to stop and smell the roses in order to appreciate the progress you've made. It's very easy for someone to get … [Read more...]
Why You Shouldn’t Take Your Thoughts Seriously…
Everyone has thousands of thoughts running through their mind every day. Some of them are helpful, and some of them aren’t. People tend to forget that their thoughts are the result of chemical reactions in the brain, and instead mistake their thoughts as reality. We all know this rationally, but the implications for making positive changes in your life are huge when you understand this concept on a deeper level. The idea is that our thoughts are NOT reality, but just one possible interpretation of reality. It’s important to remember that our minds evolved not to make us happy or to help … [Read more...]
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