Guys ask about why they aren't getting second dates; I accuse them of being boring, vanilla losers. Well, here is some food for thought.... Most guys offer nothing unique or shocking in their conversations. It is vital that in a few small paragraphs, one can offer more insights as to how he views the world, his stance, small things about himself, etc... than most guys offer in a year of conversation with me. For example, I can tell a buddy of mine clearly doesn’t care, he doesn’t apologize, he understands human behavior and has tested different approaches. He's well written, … [Read more...]
Angry Rant – Stop Spewing Your F*cking Cash
It's amazing to me how people hemorrhage their hard earned money on a daily basis. It's also amazing how many opportunities aka layups people miss. Lets take just a few examples from members of Leverage this week: I had a private call with Rich which resulted in a bet to get him to participate more. He lost that $100 bet because he was too lazy and scatterbrained to post about a call I setup for him with a friend of mine who is very advanced in a field he wants to be in. He had 5 days to get this done, it took him 6, and I reminded him to do if after swiping his credit card. Jad is moving … [Read more...]
What makes “naturals” different?
By naturals, I mean guys who – without studying game -- consistently attract hotter and higher quality girls than what their looks and social status would normally predict. Almost every natural I know has one important thing in common: a versatile, adaptable personality. Naturals intuitively adjust to the social situation at hand. They sense the emotional vibe in a room and act accordingly. They understand how to relate to different people in different ways. At work, they are analytical. In sports, they are competitive. They are loud and funny at the bar, more subdued in smaller … [Read more...]
Are you a boob or butt guy?
I have a buddy Jason who is always talking about "big tittied blondes" his words, not mine. When I'm out with this guy every girl he sees he turns to me and says "look at those titties!" It's like he's in 7th grade and girls have grown boobs for the first time. When I look at all my friends who always date beautiful women are all ass guys. The reason is simple, having big boobs isn't a challenge. Any girl who is fat, is gonna have big boobs. But the only way to have a nice ass is to be in really good shape. It's like a skinny guy with a 6 pack, that shit doesn't count. … [Read more...]
A Great Example of How to Get Her Number on Tinder
What should I do when a girl cancels a date?
Hi, my name is Robbie and I've been a professional dating coach for the last 15 years. Before or after reading this article I recommend you watch this video to understand the exact reason why you're struggling with women and how to overcome it so you start changing your results today. It’s a situation we’ve all been in: you recently met a girl and things seemed to click. You set up a date, and she either tells you she can’t make it, or cuts off any contact whatsoever aka "ghosts" you. When a girl cancels a date, you may find yourself in a painful situation. But how do you … [Read more...]
Being Dynamic and Socially Attractive
Have you ever felt like you are stuck in a zone that limits your expression with other people? When stuck in this zone it can feel like that you simply don’t know enough about other topics or that you aren’t involved in enough activities. Layering Who You Are Fortunately this can be remedied by becoming layered like an onion. Having different hobbies and knowing different subjects adds layers to who you are. It can add a great deal of value towards your social presence. Impress Others by Being Dynamic Being dynamic impresses women and allows you to be social at parties or … [Read more...]
Don’t Send This Text!
This text thread was posted in our Leverage Mentorship from a new member. He approached the girl during the day following the advice in our Daygame Ebook and walked away with her phone number. The rest... well it didn't turn out so well for him. Valuable commentary was provided by the moderators and other group members. … [Read more...]
What are the best kind of women to date?
Knowing your target audience is a crucial part of dating. You need to be aware of who you are talking to, and you need to be selling what it is people are willing to buy. It’s important to know what kind of girls you want to date, and how to tailor your conversations to screen for the right kind of women. Consider your audience what kind of content they would be interested. Figure out the personality nuances of who you’re talking to and how they will perceive your dialogue, views, and conversation based on their personality. Personalities come from patterns of behavior over time, so … [Read more...]
Feedback for a client after his weekend of blunders with women.
One of the members of the Leverage Mentorship posted a write up about his weekend and asked for feedback. I responded with some very valuable advice which is why I decided to publicly post it on the blog. The names have been changed to protect the innocent. My comments are bolded and Adam's posts are in blockquotes. Adam wrote: I went out in Scottsdale on Friday. Only got one new number on Friday because I ran into a girl I've met before and was hanging out with her half the night. Anyhow before getting into that I'll discuss Tanya. I met her and her cousin with my buddy Tom. At first I … [Read more...]
Rant on discipline and avoiding living life like you’re a sad sack of sugar coated silly putty…
Guest post by a Leverage Program moderator You all know Boston and the Northeast are buried under serious snow to the point that we have actual driving bans, etc. Observation #1 - few to no people have shown up to the office when it snows hard. Fine... However, I was here today. And I've gone in every day it's snowed. Observation #2 - Every familiar face was at the gym today, it was packed as usual. And it's an Equinox and it costs $175/mo. The fact that the gym was packed with the same faces is probably primarily location based... But I can't be the only person who lives walking … [Read more...]
Using Osmosis To Meet Women
One of the most overlooked ways to get better at dating is also one of the simplest: hang out with guys who have better dating lives than you. Why will this help me, you might ask. After all, what I want is to have better women in my life, and unless they’re introducing me to girls, my friends aren’t going to make that happen. It’s important to hang out with social beasts their mindsets and behaviors will rub off on you. How does this work? We naturally absorb the attitudes, thoughts, and actions of the people around us. It’s a subconscious process that psychologists call … [Read more...]
Do Smart Guys Cheat Less?
In a recent study of American teenagers and adults, researchers at the London School of Economics determined that men with higher IQs are less likely to cheat. Among women, however, they found no correlation between intelligence and propensity to cheat. Their conclusion: “more intelligent men are more likely to value monogamy and sexual exclusivity than less intelligent men.” Why? Evolution. The researchers claim that sexual exclusivity is an “evolutionary novel” quality. While cavemen benefitted from having multiple sexual partners, the theory goes, intelligent guys are smart enough to … [Read more...]
Bonus Episode: Hacking Social Sharing Apps to Create Income Streams
Robbie explains how to build significant income streams using the latest social sharing websites, apps and services. Show Notes: Airbnb Relay Rides Flightcar TaskRabbit Uber Lyft DogVacay Park Circa … [Read more...]
Why did you send that text?
Most guys suck at texting. When you text a girl, or when you’re in a conversation with her, what purpose are you trying to achieve? Too often, guys will text because it gives them a rush, an ego boost, or just because it’s an enjoyable way to burn time. They’re missing the bigger picture. When humans communicate, we do it on multiple levels. There are the actual words we’re saying, which tend to be less important in dating than most people assume. I’m not about to tell you how communication is 93% nonverbal, because that’s a statistic pulled from a study done in the 70’s that really … [Read more...]
How Many Hours Should You Spend Socializing To Become Really Really Good With People?
Many people want a better social life. Like a lot of things, they want it immediately. Is there any fast-track, shortcut or magic bullet to having a fulfilling social life? The Effort Involved in a Social Life A social life is a thing of great complexity, risk and advantage. This is an immediate gratification culture, but a healthy and active social life isn’t created overnight. A social life takes a great deal of deliberate planning. Time and money must be invested. Diligence and near manic energy are absolute necessities to see your social life make a profoundly positive turn. Perhaps … [Read more...]
Rant on Minimalism
In May of 2012 I moved from LA to NY. I got out of my lease on my two bedroom apartment and put all my shit in storage. I took one suitcase worth of summer clothes with me and spent the summer traveling around Europe with a couple buddies. Upon our return to NY, I started dating a chick and basically moved in with her. Guess how much I missed my stuff? Not one fucking bit. Guess how much my stuff was costing me in storage, about $300/month. I didn't get back to LA until April 2013 and when I went through my storage unit, I realized that all of this shit was a value suck from my … [Read more...]
6 Reasons Why You’re Screwing Yourself If You Don’t Work Out
I graduated high school as a shy nerdy kid, and one of the things that has helped me the most in coming out of my shell and getting more confident socially has been working out, which I started taking seriously in college. Inner Confidence places a lot of weight on getting the fundamentals down, and working out is one of those fundamentals for good reason. If you aren’t working out regularly, you’re screwing yourself over, and making it a lot harder to connect with women. Here are my favorite reasons why: 1. It's one of the best conversation starters. At Inner Confidence we talk … [Read more...]
7 Vocal Exercises You Should Do To Become More Confident
Improving your speaking voice is something that 99% of guys don’t do, and as a result it’s a secret way to make yourself more attractive to women. Women are attracted to a guy with a powerful voice, and the qualities they are attracted to are not something you’re born with. They are all things that you develop. Some guys are fortunate to have naturally picked up good habits from their peers, friends, and families. But even professionals like sportscasters have spent hundreds of hours working on their own and with coaches to sound more confident. Since you’re the type of guy who puts … [Read more...]
Young Men Age 18-24, A Note To My Younger Self…
I sat in my office earlier today listening to Pandora when Brad Paisley's "Letter to Me" came on (I'm from Texas give me a break). It's basically a song about the advice the older Brad Paisley would give to his 17 year old self. This made me think of you. A blank canvas.You're very forward-thinking which is impressive for a 17 year old. I applaud you, sir - stay in this group and you're going to be absolutely unstoppable by the time you've finished your education. Having just turned 24, I realize that I have very little time left in the 18-24 young adult age bracket. Which is a good thing … [Read more...]
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