A lot of my content is centered around dating and relationships but this episode is very geared towards career advice, setting up a remote working situation to avoid the 9 to 5 and get out of the rat race, and some other cool points on choosing business partners. I was interview by a very inspiring young dude named YL Savitskiy on his podcast, Bring It. Topics Include: On building a remote lifestyle [2:10] How to developing personality traits [7:58] On balancing fun and doing business [14:22] On overcoming rejection [18:11] On the basics of networking [23:13] Robbie’s … [Read more...]
32: Improving Your Sexual Presence (Part 2)
Intro: Men who are honest about their sexual intentions tend to have more sex. They can talk about sex in an effective way. Show Notes: Applying your sexual presence at night How to be natural The right amount of touch to use in a conversation How Robbie learns from his mistakes and turns them around The best way for you to establish your sexual presence How to stay out of the friend zone … [Read more...]
31: Improving Your Sexual Presence (Part 1)
Intro: You need to state your intentions in a more direct, sexual way. Don’t say it obviously, such as ‘I want to have sex with you’, but you need to bring a more sexual vibe to the conversation, otherwise it’s going to be hard to have sex with the girl. In other words, you need to plant a sex seed. An example would be having a normal conversation with a girl, about different topics, finding out she does yoga, then making the conversation more sexual by asking if she can put her legs behind her head. Hit this topic for a short period of time than switch to another topic that’s normal. You … [Read more...]
Inner Confidence on Elite Daily: How To Avoid Hard Feelings & Make A Seamless Exit After A One Night Stand
Tell me if you can relate: You and your buddies go to your favorite bar. You see a cute woman and say hello. The two of you hit it off, start making out and end up back at your place for a night of fun. The next morning, you wake up with her arm slung across your chest, and you think, last night was awesome, but I got sh*t to do. How can I get out of this without looking like a total douche? This situation used to completely throw me off. (And believe me, if you think she’s not at least a little bit concerned about how to handle the situation, you’re wrong!) Read the rest of the … [Read more...]
30: Become A Minimalist To Enhance Your Bachelor Lifestyle
Intro: Guys that are good at this embrace this way of living. Having a bunch of stuff doesn’t actually make you feel good. As far as assets are concerned, you should only invest in things that earn you money. An example would be investing in some AirBnB’s that you rent out full time and earn you money. Keep anything other than assets to a minimum. Show Notes: The $7,000 mistake that turned Robbie into a minimalist The minimalist wardrobe you need for any possible situation Robbie lists every possession he owns (hint: it's not a very long list) hy most of the purchases … [Read more...]
Success Is Closer Than You Think
Ever hear the saying don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good? Nowhere is this more true than when you’re learning how to be better with women. You don’t have to be perfect, you just have to be good enough. A lot of the advice out there is aiming at perfection. And this is counterproductive for improving your skills and improving your life. Because here’s the thing: guys today have set the bar very low. Ask any woman about her frustrations with dating, and she’ll tell you that most guys are terrible: They don’t have the empathy to be able to picture what a woman actually wants … [Read more...]
Hot Chicks are Good for Business
Men love being in the company of beautiful women. It just makes everything that much more fun and interesting. You will never hear a guy say, “Dude, I’m out, I just don’t want to hang out with more cute girls.” Having hot chicks around brings me more hot chicks, more important guys, better girlfriends and better business opportunities. The more friends – hot, cool friends – I keep in my company, the higher I stand socially, and the more I enjoy my life. Whatever line of business you’re currently in, making friends with cute chicks and hanging out with them regularly will always … [Read more...]
Does Your Shirt Fit?
What size shirt are you wearing right now? I’d be willing to bet that it’s too big and doesn’t flatter you at all. How do I know that? Because 95% of all guys wear dorky clothes that make them look like they don’t have a clue how to take care of themselves (let alone lead an interaction with a woman). They haven't grasped that men's fashion styles have evolved through the ages. Dressing well is extremely important to women. A cute girl will look you up and down and decide in two seconds whether you’re worth her time and energy simply based on your choice of apparel (a crew neck in the … [Read more...]
29: The Leverage Program Euro Trip Immersion
Intro: Finding cool new cities in Europe is about discovering the places that aren’t hot yet. If you hear tons of people talking about the place, it’s probably not cool anymore. You need to get in with the local social scene of any city to really take advantage of the best it has to offer. The best parties in each city are the one’s you’re not hearing about unless you’re in that tight circle Show Notes: Robbie's recap of the guys' follies and adventures in Europe How to find the best foreign cities to visit The best place Robbie's been to in Europe Why approaching isn't the … [Read more...]
How to Use the Friend Zone to Your Advantage
Guys complain to me all the time that they’ve been confined to the friend zone. They think they should be able to bang every girl they meet, and when they get pushed to the friend zone, they whine about it instead of strategically using it to their advantage. Dudes: STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT THE FRIEND ZONE. Here’s the thing, cute chicks hang around cute chicks. If some girl won’t sleep with you but she invites you out with her girls and you become friends, use that to your advantage. You roll into some bar with six cute girl friends and you’re golden. Not only does this seriously raise … [Read more...]
A Better Way To Connect With Women
Creating strong emotional connections, especially in a short amount of time, is a difficult skill to master. Anyone who is missing the signals that girls send and not connecting is thinking way too much about what's going on in their own head: insecurities, thoughts, what to say next, etc. They're focusing on the craziness in of their mind instead of the person in front of their face. They're directing their attention to the wrong place. Before getting into how to create a deep connection, it's important to understand what "vibing" is. Guys who are good with women know how to vibe. They … [Read more...]
Are You Overlooking This Crucial Dating Principle?
Being attractive to women requires the willingness to tolerate ambiguity. Because you can never control every factor in a situation and you can’t read anyone’s mind, social situations in general are ambiguous. Nowhere is this more true than with dating. At a bar, a girl could make eye contact with you because she’s interested, or because something in your direction caught her eye. She could be laughing because she genuinely thinks you’re funny, or because she feels bad for you. She could have ignored your attempt to set up a date because she is busy with work, or because she wants you to … [Read more...]
27: Navigating Open Relationships
Intro: The key here is to be with someone who has the same goals as you in a relationship. In this situation, John and Jackie are both into the open relationship scene, and giving each other this freedom actually brings them closer, because they are genuinely enjoying it together. Show Notes: John and Jackie have coached thousands on their decision if the open lifestyle is right for them They own multiple clubs for open-minded couples and singles (www.coletteclubs.com), or the evolved version of what used to be called "swingers' clubs" How John and Jackie discovered the … [Read more...]
How to Get Over the Pain of Rejection
Every man in the world has experienced being rejected by a woman (or if he hasn’t, he’s too scared to talk to a woman in the first place). I’ve felt it. My buddies have felt it. I know you’ve felt it otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this article. There’s no doubt about it, getting a “no” totally sucks. It hurts. You might start thinking, “God, I suck. I’m horrible with women...” and that makes things even worse. Fortunately, there’s a solution and you don’t have to live with the pain of rejection forever. Making the Transition All my clients come to me because they’re sick of being … [Read more...]
26: How To Optimize Personal Growth For Faster Dating Success
Intro: Everyone should write. It allows you be reflective and organize your thoughts. It forces you to confront all the different things in your head. Show Notes: Why everyone should write, and how being a writer is like being a salesman. How expressing your ideas on paper helps you reach your goals faster. The different ways vulnerability and humility are crucial in life, and what can happen when you neglect these skills. The leverage effect, or why the little things in life turn into the big things. How to fix your body language (blog post mentioned in the episode: … [Read more...]
The Keys To Fixing Your Body Language
Body language is one of the most important ways you communicate. Women and successful men perceive what your body language shows about you in less than a second. Since it's processed on the subconscious level, your body language will make or break the interaction before you ever open your mouth. Unfortunately, guys who didn’t grow up with a masculine, athletic, macho, infrastructure in their lives never absorbed the confident body language that turns women on, so they're at a disadvantage on the dating market. Being aware of your own unconfident body language is a crucial step, but it’s … [Read more...]
The Quickest Way To Move Past Social Fear
When you're feeling fear or anxiety, the most important action to take isn't one that reduces anxiety. It's the action that reduces your avoidance, and makes you face whatever it is you're anxious about. The next time you’re in a situation where you’re feeling a negative emotion, especially fear, takes these three steps. Over time, they will train the subconscious part of your brain to do it automatically, and they take less than a minute. 1. Think of the best possible outcome This helps you determine what actions you need to take to reach that outcome. It helps you see what part of … [Read more...]
Want to Hook Up with Her? Give it 7 Hours and You’re Usually Golden
One of my clients met a girl a while back who he really liked. She liked him too, and they texted back and forth for a while before setting up a date (side note: if you’re spending days texting girls and not meeting up with them, you suck at text game and you need THIS). He picks her up at 5:00 pm, and they spend the next few hours bouncing from location to location, getting to know each other, and making out. This girl didn’t have a job, she was fresh out of college and living with her parents. At 11:00 pm, six hours later, he took her home. And left her there. BAD MOVE. The Magical 7 … [Read more...]
25: How To Present Yourself Authentically
Intro: Figure out what you want to do and take the risk. Live life with no regrets. If you have things you want to do, just do them, even if they are tough decisions. You will be proud of yourself and be able to look back knowing you took the gamble. Show Notes: The single biggest factor that Mark does that makes him successful with women. The keys to finding passion at work, and how Mark implemented these ideas when he left the corporate world to start his own business. Why Mark wants to inspire 100,000 people and how this influences his decisions. How long-term dating … [Read more...]
Building Your Ecosystem: Who’s Got Your Back?
One of the most important factors in improving your lifestyle, creating a better dating life, and having a masculine lifestyle, is who you choose to surround yourself with. Who you allow to influence your thinking dictates how you experience the world. You absorb the mental models and worldviews of the people in your ecosystems, and those beliefs can make or break you. The result: if there’s something you want to achieve, you need to be around people who are already doing it. If you want to get into the banking game or the hedge fund game, you don’t need to hang out with artists, you … [Read more...]
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